When a man finds out a woman is a virgin... the attraction that was once felt seems to die quickly. Why is that?
2007-05-19 09:28:14 · 20 answers · asked by Cambrianna S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A real man can handle it.
A guy who just wants an easy lay won't.
Consider it a jerk repeller.
2007-05-19 09:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
first of all, when a man finds out that a woman is a virgin..he feels more in control in a way since he gets the gonor of being the girls first one. he feels special that the girl chose him. he feels he has the power of taking away any pure element the girl had. however, sometimes the guy gets appaled by the whole idea of the 'results' of the first time. not too much though so as not to have sex with her and to be completely turned off.
2007-05-19 09:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Joey G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eww Current freaks me out lol.
Alot of men like virgins and some men even PAY to have sex with a "virgin". So, maybe they are justscared of what would happen for the first time, if they would mess up, or if they would hurt the girl, or something like that.
2007-05-19 09:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Millie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, because they know that they wont be getting any! Are you really surprised? Most guys want a taste before marriage. There are only a few exceptions to that rule. Most people wont buy a car without a test drive, and while women are not cars (nor men) generally, the rule still applies.
2007-05-19 09:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in view which you're bearing on an extremely backward and barbaric usa. i understand of no divorced guy who has marred or needed to marry a virgin and divorced women persons have not have been given any difficulty getting remarried or final single and/or relationship now and returned plenty youthful adult men. no one thinks there is something incorrect along with her.
2016-11-25 01:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The attraction dies because the odds of getting laid are not in his favor. If they continue to have interest in you after this discovery. Then getting laid was not their main objective. Your better off knowing this up front. Help to weed out the players early before a relationship starts.
2007-05-19 09:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Eraser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if anything i'd say that would make a woman more attractive to a man who really wanted a relationship- those after you for sex would lose attraction very quickly because that's all they're after.
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2007-05-19 09:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by specialfizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any men like this. They would love to go out with a virgin.
2007-05-19 09:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because it is a big responsibility to be someone's first. There's a lot of pressure. What if the sex is bad, and it will ruin the way you view sex for the rest of your life? (although this is ridiculous, bc it's really never all that great for a girl the first time). Or what if you become extremely clingy afterward and drive them crazy, when they weren't really looking for something THAT serious? But if a guy really likes you for you, it will be a turn-on for him. Wait for that guy, I say. I wish I had.
2007-05-19 09:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Because they think that you will either not have sex or you will want to get married. They may also think you're going to be too religious. Try not letting them know until you get to a point where it willbe an issue and hopefully they will know the realyou by then
2007-05-19 09:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems to be different in my case...the guy wanted to get with me even more when he knew i was a virgin....but it may be because when you have sex for the first time if it where with him, he doesnt want to have all the emotions that a female has when she loses the V-card. too much trouble for a guy to break the barrier there.
2007-05-19 09:33:06 · answer #11 · answered by Boo1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋