(assigned parking) Then he told the office about their pets in case they hadn't paid up (Deposit & monthly rent) Now I'm scared of being confronted by these people. My husband is convinced he was right. I'm not. I don't want to stir the pot but I don't want to be confronted. What should I do?
2007-05-19 09:10:27 · 21 answers · asked by hobo 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be grateful you are married to such a good man. He'll make a good father
2007-05-19 09:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has this been an on going problem that they park in the wrong spot....if this is a first offense I think that it was a harsh that he reported to the office. You might have true concerns about being confronted, especially if there was no kind could you please move. Must people would get offended and then confront the people that reported them.. If this has happened before and someone has asked them to move and they still break the rules then reporting is justified.
I'm a very sweet person so don't take this the wrong way but if he just told on them for the pets to get some type of revenge....It seems sorta childish. Again I really don't want to offend you but maybe there were many other thing leading up to what happened a few days ago. I honestly think the best thing to have done would have been to ask the people to move first and if after repeated times then report them.
2007-05-19 16:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by mandylou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit of a tough spot. If it was his/your spot(parking), he was right to report it. Usually there is a fee for assigned parking, you should be able to use what you are paying for! The pet thing... that was a little mean and probably unnecessary. If your office uses discretion, and they probably will as they don't want to lose you as tenants, the couple will never know where the complaint came from. In the event that you are confronted, apologize to the couple. Tell them that your husband did it and that you tried to convince him not to but that he is stubborn. End the conversation quickly and walk away. Then quickly inform the office and your husband of the conflict in case more comes of it. Usually though, responsible people don't respond that way. I don't think you really have anything to worry about. Of course if you are confronted, you could always play dumb and deny that you had anything to do with the reporting. Good Luck!
2007-05-19 16:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Knowledge Thirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is done is done. It's as simple as that--the matter isn't if he was right or wrong but now you do have to deal with the consequences. Are you neighbors normally a pain? Is this a recurrence? He might have just been at his wits end.
If you are confronted just try to explain why he did it. Talk to him and see why he did it. Explain to them that while you weren't trying to get them into trouble you were trying to do what was right.
As for your husband--like I said--what is done is done. Arguing about it now will not change the fact that it happened. Try explaining to him that you would like to find some alternatives other then just going to the manager. Perhaps you could have talked to this young couple--you could have warned him. Try to keep out of a confrontation but make your feelings heard. Best of Luck!!
2007-05-19 16:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously i doubt that you will be confronted at all but if you are...let them talk to your husband. You are not responsible for his actions or what he says...you are a partner however in the consequences. Dont waste a good worry. Most thigs are just water under the bridge.
2007-05-19 16:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st thats pretty petty your hubby sounds very anal why did he not just tell them that was not there parking spot what a prick if they come to you and confront you just tell them it was not you it was your husband and you are very sorry that he was in a really bad mood that day and mad at the world then they will go to your husband make him explain him self he did the reporting let him do the explaining
2007-05-19 17:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by tigger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your husband is a hall monitor. If you're confronted, tell them you have no idea what they're talking about. Listen to what they have to say and possibly suggest that they don't park in other people's spots so that the neighborhood snitches don't rat them out.
2007-05-19 16:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if they confront you. Tell them that you understand why they are upset and sympathize with them. By agreeing with them they will not be provoked to start a hostile, confronational scene. Most likely they don't know who it was that ratted them out about the pet situation. If they are mature they wont retaliate but it's something i might be a little cautous about.
2007-05-19 16:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Fox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband has too much free time to be worried about what other people are doing. He must be the neighborhood busy body.
2007-05-19 16:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by QueenLori 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
These people shouldn't have a problem with you just your husband but just don't mess with them and u should be good
2007-05-19 16:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋