Is this a love affair?

Question

My bf want me to visit her when her husband goes to iraq He has know knowledge that she talks to me or that where planning this. I want to see her but if where caught it would look
like a love affair. he believe that me and her were together we have been but by accident & alchola. What should I do i want to be both of there friends I have no problem with him why do I have to be caught inbetween. But i also get this feeling that she might try to have sex with me and I won't want to hurt her feeling because iv'e know her 9 years but what if we do get drunk again or something? What is the best thing to do in this situation. She gets so mad at me if I bring him up or tell her we problay should not I suspect he may know or what if he finds out. he really does not like me from what she tells me I am concern that if something goes wrong I don't want to be the cause of there marriage to fail. But I'm sick of hiding are Friendship.

Answer 1

You're either stupid or full of crap. First of all, are you a lesbian or a guy? I can't tell. Wait, I can. If you were a guy talking like this you'd be gay and then you wouldn't be having this problem. Okay, if you're sincere about caring about screwing up someone's marriage, plain and simple, don't. If you're so out of control of your impulses and you can't control your drinking or what you do when you're drunk, don't visit her. Then again, if you are a chick, her husband might actually be into a threesome. If he's not, then back the hell off, and tell your lesbian lover to pick a team.