Well a few months ago i hooked up w/ a guy...not sex but still pretty bad...and i told one of my guy friends thinking he would keep my trust and not tell anybody. Well now lots of guys know and they are always talking to me about it and kinda wont let me forget it. I am steaming mad at my friend for telling. Should i talk to him?
2007-05-19 09:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by southern belle <3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have talked to him enough !! ,hopefully you can find a girlfriend to "talk" to about stuff like this to next time. It is alot harder for guys to keep "those kind of secrets", they want to go "brag" to their friends...even if it wasn't "him" you were messing with.
2007-05-19 09:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Tell him you told him this in confidence, and now you won't trust him with your secrets. And when those guys come up to you, you need to say, "You don't know what you're talking about, and it's not really your business, so drop it." They are sexually harassing you by talking about your sex life without being invited to do so.
2007-05-19 16:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, First thing never tell someone somthing you don"t want repeated ! If he is a friend sure cause he was just being human. You were as much at fault as he was. Keep somethings to yourself !
2007-05-19 17:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that really depends on you.
Confront him if you want. but you could also not give him the satisfaction of seeing how hurt you are. Stuff happens in life-- you gotta pick yourself up--be strong--and move on. Don't let him get you, because I'm sure that's what he wants.
2007-05-19 16:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't waste your time with this friend anymore. He obviously didnt keep your trust and you resulted a bad rep. This friend is not trustworthy, i think you should lose him.
2007-05-19 18:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad mistake
dont listen what others say,dont let anybody with saying bad to you, dont care
keep your confidence, respect
hardly talk with him
2007-05-19 16:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by aida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend isn't a real true friend. but if u knew them for a long time just talk to them they just made a mistake
2007-05-19 16:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by bobby l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i wouldnt talk to him ever again but if you do don't tell him anything else you wouldn't want anyone to know.
2007-05-19 16:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by rk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him you know and to keep his mouth shut
2007-05-19 16:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt for a while until you make him say different
2007-05-19 16:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by pinksk8ergurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋