2007-05-19 09:46:03 · 19 answers · asked by chevygirl69_04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
absolutely not!!! be true to your needs and emotions. communication is vitally important here.
it was the same for me in my last two marriages and i was totally honest, to no avail. i told them if they didn't do their homework, somebody else would do it for them...and somebody else did. bad choice on my part!!! the consequence, i'm divorced. and both were great guys.
be very careful, if he is rejecting you and you start to lose feelings for him, tell him. and if he's good to you, hang in there with him for as long as you can. it's tough but if he's a keeper...KEEP HIM
2007-05-19 10:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by basskickinmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope baby my hubby pretended that he was sleeping last night because he is flat out tired after having sex with me that very morning. I drain him sometimes and he complains that he has nothing left in his sacks because about 14-16 times a week I work him out. He is really attracted to me so saying no to me is very hard and he also likes it as much as I do. I think that women like sex more than men and just hates to admit it but I know that I like sex more than my husband I am more a freak than he is. He is also very aware of it too and tries to accommodate me but honey sometimes he gets burnt out. From experience get some toys when he is tired and he could probably help you out now and again. It is not bad its just normal.
2007-05-19 10:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Don't think you're a "freak" or something, because you aren't. If you want to get him more involved, try spicing things up by giving him a show when he walks in the bedroom. Warm yourself up and it should start his motor running. Try different things and see what excites him. If you don't normally shave, try that. If you usually have sex in one position, try another. Doggie style is great for men, because it's a visually stimulating position. Just be more assertive but at the same time, start without him. If you have adult movies, put one in and wait for him to come in the room. Mix it up!
2007-05-19 09:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by That'll Happen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good sex drive is great, but if it your husband can't handle it can be a major problem. Can lead to feelings of rejection. It all depends on how you both are able to compromise.
2007-05-19 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by BROWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why should it be? There's not a rule that says men should want to have sex more often than women. It's a natural thing. Besides...sex is good.
2007-05-19 09:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Luvlee_Dreamer87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, I feel the same way only that my husband always sleeps first then me are when I go to bed early he stays up. Just because he is running away from me. But i don't care, so if yours is willing go for it, good luck.
2007-05-19 10:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by mexlavanderlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not bad to want it more from your husband, that's one of the reasons why you have a husband. be honest with him of your needs and wants...you two need to communicate here.
2007-05-19 09:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by myohmymyohmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat ur in sister my sex drive has came up really high lately and my husband has noticed and i know he enjoys it .. just talk to him and tell him how u feel ... he probably would understand .. good luck
2007-05-19 10:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. You can solve that problem but only with your husband.
Just don't try to get it somewhere else.
2007-05-19 09:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you sista!
Its bad coz your not getting satisfied. I'd like to hear what the men here have to say
2007-05-19 09:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Earl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋