My girlfriend and I are very "active". When we are in public, she is not afraid to kiss and show affection. We share many sex jokes and talks (although some of my friends are very uncomfortable with that kind of topic) She gets "wild" in some cases, and my friends have told me that it bugs them. But whenever we are alone, we do things very differently, she gets very passionate and things slow down a lot. We sit, lay, or get other types of comfortable and start to have a good time. She gets this sweet side that she only shows when we are alone. We start calling each other nicknames (like sweetheart or teddy bear), barely making any sexual references. We do kiss and do other things a lot, but very slowly and passionately, very differently than we do in public. Is this bizarre behavior, or is it just me? I know she doesn't have split-personality issues or anything like that, but she acts very differently at various times.
2007-05-26 20:15:27 · 21 answers · asked by Orlando S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm the same way. and for me it is because i am much more comfortable joking around and having a good time with something like that. i don't like being sweet with other people around because it's something meant for me and my boyfriend not me and the entire world. The jokes are there for fun, you might want to tell her to tone it down a bit, but leave the sweet side to you two alone. she wants it to be special for you all . so enjoy it
2007-05-26 20:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by barbiedoll17 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My BF and I have the same experience as you do. I can show affection to my BF in public but if we're alone I'm a totally different person very submissive, gentle and passionate. My personality is strong and I act like boyish in public but the reason for being a different person if we're alone is because I respect him, I acknowledge and hold that my BF is in charge of our relationship and that I want him to feel how much I love him and that I am serious and committed to our relationship.
2007-05-27 03:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by I_Rockzzz!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may be what turns her on. The dirty stuff is to fill an insecurity, maybe? She may have a false idea that the dirty stuff is more expected and widely accepted and want to show that to others, but she knows you don't care about her sweet side. Not all girls get fired up dirty. You could tell her that you've noticed this, and ask her if it's just an extra present for you, or what? If you like it, that is. Teddy bear? Gag! Lol, that's between you two.
2007-05-27 03:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats just showing you that she is an open person. I wouldn't worry much about what your friends think, you should just be happy with what you got. I think from what I'm hearing, your woman is awesome. You don't realize there are guys that would actually like that kind of woman. But if it really bothers you, then tell her. Just be cautious though, women don't like to be told or asked to tone down even a little. lol
2007-05-27 03:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bro , what i guess is that she is trying 2 make
an image in public of a sex item or dirty chick ,
with cool guys around her and sharing the sex jokes with them-all these only add two her favour ( in that way ).
thats really not fair man.
a girl who really loves a person
and wishes 2 have him throughout will actually
act much more civilized than that.
for eg. she would try stop you from dirty talks in public
bec then u have to represent urself there.
and generally girls are much more
concerned for that than we guys .
although it seems as if she is yours but again all these activities raises a question on her conduct and thoughts going on in her mind .
i hope she doesnt cheat u lateron but be careful about that,
just try 2 be concious !!
2007-05-27 03:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by rahul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she may have some self-esteem issues. She wants to seem tough and act like no one and nothing will stop her from doing what she wants to do. That's part of her being so brazen, it's an act. Under it all she is probably like most girls who want to be sweet, loved and cared for, but she doesn't want anyone else but you to know it.
2007-05-27 03:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by ohbrother 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's natural in any relationship. You have a great relationship. Be glad of it, and stick with it, since not many people do. I always see weird couples who don't get along and fight and argue. It looks like you have a model "textbook" relationship. Sit back, enjoy, and live life with lots of happiness.
2007-05-27 03:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzyhamster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is showing it only to you that is a good thing she feels like she can act like her self around you
Moast of these ansewers are very stupid and you dont get trust me i no but you should take some of them under consideration
2007-05-27 03:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she likes to be centre of attention then - after reading your question. My guess is the more the better when she has an audience. Don't worry about it as long as you are both happy then its fine.
If she's bugging you then tell her about it
2007-05-27 03:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a tough chick with a heart of gold.
If you can crack her shell like that already, you are doing very well indeed. When someone lets you see that vulnerable side of them, it's a great sign of trust.
2007-05-27 03:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋