Family & Relationships - 26 May 2007

I feel that there was this attraction between us. So I asked for this guy's name two weeks ago at a cafe. He works there. Two weeks later, I walked up and told him my name. He smiled and said "oh okay". The cafe was busy. I know he didn't see that coming, but is this bad or it's just that he didn't know how to response to that sudden introduction?

2007-05-26 19:55:33 · 7 answers · asked by JKST 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think that if a guy (age 16) is always asking you to come over to his house or asking to come over your house just to see you.. is looking for a booty call? Because this boy keeps asking me...but I've been reluctant because I don't want him to think that just because we are at my house or his alone..means that I'm gonna have sex with him..

2007-05-26 19:55:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats happening in his mind and body

2007-05-26 19:44:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a male friend ive been dating for 3 months and he never spends time with me on the weekends and he has never introduced me to his kids. he says hes with his kids on the weekend and that thats the only time he gets to spend with them. well we both work nights so that is the time i spend with him when we get off and maybe every once in a while in the day for a brief momment but mostly late at night after 1. well get this, i have kids too and i spend time with them but im willing to make plans to spend time with him on weekends so why is that his excuse. i have kids too. ive talked with him about it several times and nothing has changed so what would you do?

2007-05-26 19:41:59 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I just got back to talking to a girl that i kno after not talking to her a awhile because a a misphap...we are friends againand I like her but she doesnt like me like a boyfriend but just as a really good friend.....her birthady s coming up and i wanted to get her something but i just dont know!!


What can i get her soo that she will start to think that i really lik her??

I have heard to get her something that she is interested in but what else sould i focus on to help get the right gift?????

2007-05-26 19:41:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 19:38:59 · 1 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 19:33:48 · 1 answers · asked by Shagun P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm planning to marry someone,
but i still resent them,
everyday i deal with my resentment;
i'm not one to complain.
We've all had held or hold resentment,
and it gets hard but I won't give up.
Anyways,I love this person.
I dont hate him,I just hate what he did to me.
When we were a match a couple of years ago,
I've caught him cheating and fliriting so many times before.
But I have secong thoughts of not marrying him.
He is locked up,but we had something before that,so please dont judge me for that.
So is it unhealthy to marry him,we really do want to get married,but I still hold alot of resentment towards him.

2007-05-26 19:20:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-26 19:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like a man to be more agressive and take control or do you like to be more gentle and just kind of go with the flow and both make moves?

I'm not saying de rouhg at all.. but just lead.. and tell you what to do most the time and not be sooo gentle and whimpy...

Or do you like to take control most of the time?

2007-05-26 19:15:43 · 7 answers · asked by JulianJules 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are going through a seperation with your wife (she asked you to leave), but you aren't really sure if you are in love with her or just love her, would you rahter she: a) give you space to allow you to figure things out. b) still want her to be affectionate etc. as normal OR would "b" be considered putting pressure on you to make a decision? Help! How should I handle this? I don't want my marriage to dissolve. I will not be treated like a doormat, but I will give it everything I have. I also feel like maybe I should act like we were dating again, but then maybe he would think I wasn't being myself completely? Or that I was just doing it because of the situation we are in?? PLEASE HELP!

2007-05-26 19:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to commit suicide but I'm scared but I'm more scared of staying alive. I hate my life so much I can't even put it into words, not even my life, i hate myself. I wont tell anyone I know about this cuz i dont want to be one of "those people" who threaten suicide, because i know alot of them dont have any intention on doing it & just want sympathy or attention. I don't. I've always been comfortable in the shadows. I'm at peace with the fact I'm going to die soon. I just don't know how im going to do it. What is the least painful way?

2007-05-26 19:00:32 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a tendency to get drunk and sleep around. I can't have sex sober...I don't know why. The guys I sleep with are people I crush on anyway. I don't do it frequently, but I have done it enough. I don't want people in the town to think I'm promiscious, I do it discreetly (and I don't act trashy when I'm drinking). Is it bad to do this as a 23 year old mother? Am I a slut?

2007-05-26 18:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One day a year ago I went to visit my fiancee at his work(retail) and myself and my(his also) 2 year old daughter happened to walk up on him and his co worker/ school mate and she was rubbing his shoulder and giving him a puppy dog face/eyes pouting for him to do something for her, when she noticed us they seemed very surpirsed. I DIDNT see him flirt back with her, perhaps because we walked up.
I explained to him I thought this was inappropiate and it was obvious this woman liked him and that I wanted him to not associtate with her anymore.

Yesterday I found out that he had been having a class with her for the past 3 months, and he didnt tell me at all. We have even spoken about her and he didnt tell me. I then found out that on top of lying to me he also chose her, himself, as his study partner and had been hiding it from me!

I am furious, we share a3 yr old girl and a baby on the way..
should i be concerned about this?

2007-05-26 18:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by mother to be 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We had dinner with friends tonight and all seemed to be going well until he started talking about me and finding fault with how I will turn the AC on and I don't consider the fact that he pays the bill. He thens calls me a walking moral hazard in front of our friends. For some reason, whenever we go out with other couples (which isn't often), my husband always brings up a fault or something that he perceives as a fault. I sure I do it, but he takes it to a whole nother level. Needless to say, his stupid comment made me livid and there was no need for it. The walking moral hazard part was uncalled for.

2007-05-26 18:31:36 · 21 answers · asked by hrmom02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever notice that whenever you are arguing with a girl and u say drop it. They actually get more mad and can never drop a subject until they have the final word.

2007-05-26 18:24:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what's the process?

2007-05-26 18:22:06 · 3 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Weddings

krazy because i'm ready to fight her again! she is 22yrs old but she act like she is 12yrs old she talk to her other brother and his girlfriend about me but the real reason she dont like me is cause her and my boyfriend was best friends and now she feel that i'm took him away from him but me and my boyfriend been to gether for 4yrs now we have a baby together but my boyfriend get mad cause i call her out her name everytime we go over his mom house he want me to just sit there and let her do krazy sh*t but i'm ready to fight her again cause when i was in the hospital having my baby she came up there to see the baby but this stupid bit*h brought my boyfriend old girlfriend so i played eveything kool into his sister called my boyfriend out in the hallway telling him she wish him and his old girlfriend get back together so I put all them out and told the doctor not to let them back in!!! So what should I do to this bit*h (his sister)?

2007-05-26 18:20:23 · 8 answers · asked by ms.beautiful_87 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok ive gone out with this guy named brandon and we dated for like a year but he broke up with me for a stuck up ***** and he came back to me and said he was sorry for everything and then he asked me out what should i do???

2007-05-26 18:18:52 · 12 answers · asked by Michele 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for about 3yrs. I was interduced to her thru my exgirlfriend (it's her step sister) and we become good friends. she wanted more at first but she was going thru a divorce so I knew it wouldn't last. Well, the longer I've known her the more I like her. Some days she acts the same way but if I compliment her on her looks she tells me to quit sucking up. When I look at her my heart races, chills run thru me, and I just want to grab her and kiss her. I just don't want to ruin our friendship if she doesnt feel the same way. I don't know what to do.... should I tell her how I feel and see waht her reaction is or should I act on impulse and just kiss her to see how she reacts? I am so lost.
Also she has a little girl that just adores me and I her. I want to be everything for them both.
What should I do.... PLEASE HELP!!

2007-05-26 18:16:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night I had a birthday party in a limo. I invited my friends and this girl I liked a lot invited her friends. For about an hour everyone was having a good time. As soon as we left the mall people started drinking and eventually got drunk. I didn't drink which was really awkward. Anyways the girl I liked a lot had sex/made out with this guy who she invited! I was/still am Pissed off at her and the guy I don't even know the guy! I was so pissed I told the driver to go back home and drop everyone off and the party was over because of her. Should I tell everyone even her friends why I ended the party early? saying that I liked her a lot and it was heartbreaking and sick to watch them in the limo. Last night was by far the worst night of my life! and it was supposed to be a birthday party for me!. the girl I liked knew I liked her which is why I'm so pissed. BTW she is 17 years old and I'm 19 years old. What should I say to her when/if she calls me? I'm done being friends with her!

2007-05-26 18:15:18 · 5 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

saying let's talk? is it a specific issue that is bothering you that you want to address or several? or here is another one, when we ask what's wrong why you say "nothing" when there is actually something that is bothering you?

2007-05-26 18:14:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I tell my son to stop having kids? He has 26, nearly all with different women. He's a good father and all, but sometimes enough's enough.

2007-05-26 18:10:37 · 40 answers · asked by The Age Of The Mullet 1 in Family

Her insecurity is so great that I let her get plastic surgery to boost her self esteem. I've given her NO excuse to be this way. Even my friends notice it at social events. It's so unfair for a guy who has truly been a good husband. Parties are great! But when an attractive lady talks or is introduced to me,
I CRINGE! Any ideas?

2007-05-26 18:09:27 · 26 answers · asked by Mr. C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-26 18:05:15 · 9 answers · asked by ignorancecutekiller 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom she says i need to act lady like in public places and really i never talk all i do is just sit low in the chair,put my hand over my face,listen to loud hard or metal rock, then she says i need to dress more like it.I have a nose piercing i wear all black,3 cartilage piecings.What am i going to do with my mom shes getting on my nerves with this Lady like stuff.

2007-05-26 18:04:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to show my true love towards my gf . what gift shall i prefer ?

2007-05-26 17:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what should i do?
my date can't drive either. im a senior.
i can't go in a group, and can't pay for a limo

any advice?

2007-05-26 17:57:27 · 15 answers · asked by maril_greg 1 in Singles & Dating

Well there this girl in uni who always talks to me.Whenever she sees me she gives me her widest and prettiest smile which she does very rarely.She has her own group of friends , but whenever she sees me she tries to pull me into it.She's been tryin this for a few months now.Apart from that if im alone she sits next to me flashes her widest smile and starts talking.Randomly she' also check some body parts as if inspecting something(P.S. nothin private).I was pretty embarassed to tell this but she also grabs my a s s sometimes..but i think it's friendly.Also notices wot i wear and tells me wot to wear and wot not to.Is this flirting?Im really confused. Wot shud i do?

2007-05-26 17:53:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 17:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by paradise33 1 in Friends