I just got back to talking to a girl that i kno after not talking to her a awhile because a a misphap...we are friends againand I like her but she doesnt like me like a boyfriend but just as a really good friend.....her birthady s coming up and i wanted to get her something but i just dont know!!
What can i get her soo that she will start to think that i really lik her??
I have heard to get her something that she is interested in but what else sould i focus on to help get the right gift?????
2007-05-26 19:41:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you can do that I have found to be pretty awesome is go and get a gift bag and then go through your pictures, movie ticket stubs, etc. of things that you two have done together and put them in the bag. when you give it to her, as she pulls out each one, tell her why you put it in there and what it meant to you. Also, if you can create a list of one hundred things you like about her, that is awesome too. My husband and I did that and we still have them nine years later.
2007-05-26 19:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by chrystal_grove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at this point a meaningful card with a handwritten expression of what her friendship means to you and what her mere presence means to you.Don't get all mushy and mention getting back together or how you are in love with her, just that she is very significant in your life and you will always Cherish and love her no matter what. Keep it light. I know it sounds corny and it might be the hardest thing to put into words, but if sit and think about the time she wasn't there and how you wished she was and how you never want to loose her friendship again. I don't know if you understand yet that you have to be friends down deep in your soul to ever go any further like engagement or even marriage (long down the road!!) but my point is hearing something like that in words from you would probably mean more to her or any real friend than an object. That might be a small Plato for a new beginning to grow or maybe not........You have time to put small thoughts down one at a time then rearrange them into a nice paragraph or two. It will help you to get all your feelings out too. If you must get her a gift as well not a huge expensive one!!! Maybe a charm necklace or bracelet. You could get a nice one at Walmart for around 30$. She can add more charms to it anytime.
Walmart charm bracelet ideas.
http://www.walmart.com/search/search-ng.do?search_query=charm&search_constraint=3891&ic=24_0&ref=&search_sort=4&selected_items=
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=1118666
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4978964
2007-05-26 19:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, son, it seems that she is just young and childish! She doesn't want to be seen with you by certain people so it is then that she ignores you. Then when those people aren't around she wants you to kick it all of a sudden! Screw that trick! But if you feel the need to associate with her let her initiate it. That way you can't be ignored! Otherwise drop her *** like a bad habit son that sounds like the route I'd chose. There are plenty friends to be made and with a person like that in your life it will only cause you grief! Never forget nothing is wrong with you! It's everyone else who has issues! Good Luck sweetheart!
2016-04-01 10:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, she may never have romantic feelings for you again, you're gonna have to accept that. Try a gift that is heartfelt and that she needs; what are her interest, what are her future plans, etc. A good friend would always try to get a gift that matters, not a flashy expensive thing.
2007-05-26 19:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by had438 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If you have a small photo, transform it into a small painting. It will help her think of you all the time :)
They do it for you, at http://www.paintyourlife.com/ You just upload the photo, or mail it. It starts from $99.
This gift is something that she will love, cause it is unique and whenever she sees the painting it will instantly remind her of you :) (Choose a photo where she is doing something she loves)
Karl Sultana
2007-05-28 22:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it real simple and tread lightly. Two roses, one yellow and the other red with a simple card of best wishes and love.
2007-05-26 19:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋