Family & Relationships - 26 May 2007

2007-05-26 09:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by maryjoy m 2 in Singles & Dating

I graduated from high school a week ago and deciding on which University to attend out of state, (University of Nevada, Las Vegas or Portland State University) One of my sisters goes to college in Tennessee and the oldest one is a doctor in Nigeria. My sisters do not want me to leave CO because my mom is diabetes and once I leave she will be on her own. I DON'T want to stay in state or live at home forever. I DON'T get along with my mother, we are consisting fighting. If I stay at home with her much longer, I will either commit suicide or go crazy. But they do not understand this, their augment is that their mom adopted me when nobody wanted me and brought me to the US so I owe her that, but what about what I want or my happiness? My school is already closed so if I do start applying to college in CO, there's no way to send in my transcript, test scores or anything else. I don't want them to blame me if anything happens if i leave cuz i didn't stay. Any advices would be appreciated?

2007-05-26 09:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by Rose 3 in Family

ok im in love with this girl from school but she has a boyfriend and my chance is gone u might wanna see the questions i asked before aswering this So tonight im going out on a date with this girl i have no feeling 4 her even tho my friends tell me shes hot so were going 2 the movies and after that were gonna go cruising and im gonna be alone in that back seat with her someone plz guide me through this date tell me the things i should do

2007-05-26 09:45:24 · 5 answers · asked by noe 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been wondering on this for a loooong time i want a guy but a guy that will stick with me so who should i choose?

2007-05-26 09:44:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my father just hates me;doesnt respect me;annoys me and i wanna die sometimes because of him

2007-05-26 09:43:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In a marriage the bed is supposed to be undefiled like it says in the bible,but what about oral sex?

2007-05-26 09:43:14 · 25 answers · asked by Sylvia F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 5 years has been spending more and more time with his friends lately. He's even begun chatting with a woman online. I've read some of their e-mails, and it's nothing inappropriate (he mentions me quite a bit), but I'm starting to feel that our family isn't in his #1 spot anymore. Am I being too sensitive about this? Or should I back off a bit and let him do his thing?

2007-05-26 09:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by moosesandsnow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-26 09:42:29 · 17 answers · asked by sad_hurt_confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talken to my fried Jacob on te phone yesterday and he said something kinda mean and like always i said oh, ilove u 2
but for the first time he said i love u back 2 me i like him but i dont know if he ment it. Plus a cople of week ago he gave me a hug for my b-day and i felt the click i still havent told him bout that yet. but did he mean it?

2007-05-26 09:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First it was email, then friends reunited, ebay and now yahoo answers - she's a woman obsessed and I want her back. HELP! (It is my wife that is typing this for me!)

2007-05-26 09:38:27 · 25 answers · asked by jaffacake 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-26 09:38:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To be with your child every single time u could just play with him/her, you could take him/her to the park, and play whatever sport u want to play. Be the parent that he wants to have, I have kids and I always play and mkae some jokes when they are very sad, sometimes you could tickle ur child when they are mad or talk about the feelings each other , so they could know that parents does solve problems. Don't be so mean and say *NO* to them when they want to do with u . Play and join. Pretend that ur a kid . If u have problems you could just contact me and I will tell u the steps how to be with ur child.

2007-05-26 09:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-26 09:34:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need to impress my boyfriend of 3 years on our anniversary date. Why? So that it will raise the bar and I know on my birthday it will be sextacular. So I need a date plan so perfect it will seem like it popped out of a movie scene.

2007-05-26 09:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this boyfriedn but things are just not going right and i dont no what to do...because we argue to much and we argue all the time and he made me cry to many times we have broke up lots of times but he always comes back and he says he sorry and i take him back because i love him to much...But im kinda losing interest for him but then im not and im tired of agueing and fighting and braking up...I just dont no what to do.

2007-05-26 09:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by babiigiirl925 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I also found out that he like's me to but he dont know that I like him so he's going to move and not ever know that he left some one that really liked him that would be ****** up I think any way and he also makes me happy.

2007-05-26 09:33:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 09:33:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After reading the single & relationship board, it's evident that more than half of the post are from kids 17 and younger.

Question - Are your parents so oblivious they don't know you're dating and making statements like...'we're soul-mates' and 'I want to marry him/her' or even 'we belogn together'?

2007-05-26 09:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by ark 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 09:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a lie accomplishes a moral or ethnical good, is that lie justified?

2007-05-26 09:30:07 · 7 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6 in Singles & Dating

Is the traditional concept of marriage outdated?

2007-05-26 09:29:47 · 12 answers · asked by Jason 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So I met this guy in one of my classes, we chatted alot about ourselves like our likes dislikes, etc. And I was really starting getiing into this guy, there was one evening where I caught him saying "I really like this girl" and then he looks at me and pauses all of a sudden. We went on a sort of a date, the conversation was not bad. Anyways after that night he started to get distant and I really don't know why.... anyways for months I've been trying to contact him, like for instance asking him how has he been doing etc, He never responded to any of the messages, until one time I text message him on how I heard a rumor that he liked me, he of course said he did not like me. Yet then I caught him talking about me and how he can get me out his head, and the fact that I spoted him aroung school staring at me. Of course he blocks me for like 5 months then all of the sudden he decides to unblock me and still does not say anything. Any suggestions as to what I should do?

2007-05-26 09:28:59 · 19 answers · asked by Heart 5 in Singles & Dating

i am a very shy person ..i dont have girl friends ..i dont know how to talk to them or how to attract them.. i dont know how to move with them ...pls do help me

2007-05-26 09:27:46 · 17 answers · asked by vamshi 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's my dilema. We just moved into an upstairs apartment in a really nice neighborhood. I was standing in the kitchen last week and noticed the teenage girl next door changing her clothes with the blinds and windows wide open (and when I say changing, I mean she was standing there completely naked). I thought to myself "Oh geez, she would be so embarrassed if anyone saw her" and I walked away without thinking much about it. A few nights later as I was closing the blinds at night I noticed she was laying on her bed in just her panties. I'm married and have a 9 year old son. This day in age how do you approach this? Igorning it seems dangerous, running the off chance risk of my husband finding himself in legal issues for seeing an underage girl changing, and non-legal issues of my 9 year old watching her change or lounge around in next to nothing. If it were ~my~ teenage daughter, I'd want to know - but I know not all parents are the same.

2007-05-26 09:27:05 · 13 answers · asked by razor_sharp_redhead 3 in Family

I was in a car accident and had to have surgery on my back, i got my settlement and spent it on the house now it's gone i didn't get much but i spent all of it on our three kids and of course him, i was treated like a queen now i am broke, i have no money at all. I have nowhere to go i own half of my house and i shouldn't have to leave he sits up in our room day after day even after work. He calls our kids names and me i have no self esteem left, no money and it's been three years and i am still waiting for my dissability. We have been together for 20 yrs i can't stand him anymore i don't know what to do, i cry myself to sleep every nite. If anyone can help me pls email me @ stuck67@yahoo.com i don't want to go into a group home everything here is mine. please someone help me and my kids

2007-05-26 09:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have no contact with him, as he wants nothing to do with his child, and has said so to the solicitor, so why does he have to loiter near my little ones nursery? the first nursery he went to last year my ex did the same ! my little one wasnt settling there so i took him out and my ex is now being spotted at the new one? the person who spotted him said to me that maybe he is checking to see how we both are ? but he has my number and he knows where we live

2007-05-26 09:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not normally a jealous person, but this woman was such a ***** to me and tried to break my husband and I up.. and she claims that he proposed to her when they were dating (about 6 months before we started dating), though he denies it. She friend requested him, he added her back, and it really bothers me. Am I just jealous or would this bother you, too?

2007-05-26 09:22:48 · 24 answers · asked by ... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-26 09:22:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my ex-boyfriend is harassing me all the time now, and critisizing me about when we used to go out, and how bad I was at kissing. He said that they were too wet (even though his were wet too-we had never kissed each other or anybody else-on the lips-before). How can I improve my kissing for the future? (and mainly just regular kissing-probably not french-kissing...)

2007-05-26 09:19:13 · 13 answers · asked by KKBswimlove 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the exact appeal women have for male strippers that they often have sex with them at the shows(the private hotel/ home shows that they come to)-i have heard of girls about to be married even doing this, and some weddings being called off because of it.

2007-05-26 09:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings