In a marriage the bed is supposed to be undefiled like it says in the bible,but what about oral sex?
2007-05-26 09:43:14 · 25 answers · asked by Sylvia F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The Bible doesn't specifically address it, but in "Song of Soloman," it refers to the man enjoying the Hills of Bether (the woman's breasts) all night long. To me, this means taht a man and his wife should enjoy each other's whole bodies. so I guess it would be up to you. I'm sure some Christians would say it is an abomination of nature.
2007-05-26 09:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by derek1079 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is NOTHING wrong with oral sex. When it says that the marriage bed is undefiled it means that as long as your sex together doesn't involve other people and doesn't cross eachother's personal boundaries of what they are comfortable with then you are free to do whatever you can imagine up.
2007-05-26 10:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What happens in the marriage bed between the husband and wife that is consensual to all parties is condoned by God. The body was built for pleasure and it pleases God that a married couple find satisfaction with each other. If that includes vaginal or anal or oral or even swinging by the ceiling fan then God is happy that you are happy. Defiling the bed would be if you invited someone who was not married to you into your marital bed.
2007-05-26 10:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Appropriate???? man oral sex in marriage is like a requirement.. A dutie.... a most... if he don't get it at home... guess what? he goes and find undefiled else where.... LOL
2007-05-26 14:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your Question perfectly, but i have a questionn to ask you. If you take the oral sex thing so seriously, do you also take the question of YOUR period seriously too? You are not to touch your husband or get into his bed while you are on your period also, Do you cleanse a room when you go out of it,because you were in it in an UNCLEAN state? You have to read your bible then if you don't. I don't either but if you are going to QUOTE the bible and do what it says you better read it again cause there are a lot of things you need to do to follow if you are going to follow any of them. It's between you and God and i'm pretty sure he will forgive you and your spouse for giving each other the pleasure HE gave you in the first place.
2007-05-26 09:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by kissmeagainnow 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
When is it not appropriate??? You won't be married long without it..its a nice change in the sexual routine in the relationship..I agree with the one girl that answered..do it everywhere and often..Its healthy, nothing deviant about it in the least. Gotta love the French for that little addition to the world lol
2007-05-26 10:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The marriage bed is undefiled. If your husband wants oral "be submissive" and "honor your husband", likewise husbands love your wife as yourself!!! From one Christian to another...yeap it is ok. Sex was meant to be shared between married people (no offense unmarried people, I wasn't always saved!!!). Chick enjoy your husband and allow your husband to enjoy you!!! Wish you much happiness and success in your marriage.
2007-05-26 09:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I try to follow the rules of the Bible also... I have talked to some women in my church and we all feel that anything you do at home is okay as long as both partners agree to it. If you give him head I promise you that it will spice things up.
2007-05-26 12:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage is about loving your spouse endlessly...so GO for it! And don't just do it in the bed. Do it everywhere!
2007-05-26 09:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Dulce313 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, yes it is. Then again I don't prescribe to the repressed Judeo-Christian ideal of sex, either.
2007-05-26 09:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋