Ok, my ex-boyfriend is harassing me all the time now, and critisizing me about when we used to go out, and how bad I was at kissing. He said that they were too wet (even though his were wet too-we had never kissed each other or anybody else-on the lips-before). How can I improve my kissing for the future? (and mainly just regular kissing-probably not french-kissing...)
2007-05-26 09:19:13 · 13 answers · asked by KKBswimlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months on our anniversary back in May-I'm doing pretty good, he seems to be too. But my old ex- started harassing me just a week or two before i broke up with my most recent bf.
*i've only had 2 bfs*
i'm also only 13 yrs old, so nothing major-also, im sort of self-conscious about what others think about me,and im scared to act too soon or somethin, and mess up the relationship.
also, my old ex- has a gf now, who is sort of one of my friends (she is actually sort of ditching her bff, and we are sort of friends, so she's been hanging out with me a lot lately-my ex's gf's bff)
2007-05-26 09:31:13 · update #1
another note, my most recent bf didnt make a single move, except put his arm around me --twice.
i kissed him on the cheek in about March-the day that my family was leaving , to go to my grandma's funeral.
I gave him time-about 2 months-he did nothing.
but with my "ex-jerk", i didnt really even know how to kiss, so i sort of just followed his lead.
hes probably comparing me to his gf that he has now (hes had at least 2 or 3 gfs since me-and he broke up with me in March 2006) while ive only had 1 bf-but my "ex-jerk"'s other gfs havent lasted as long as me and him-except that his gf of rite now just mite-they've been going out for almost i think, umm, maybe, a month or two? and we were almost 6 months i think.
2007-05-26 09:38:44 · update #2
hi,
don't worry about what her thinks about the way you kiss. you are a young person and in time you will learn all you need to know abut kissing as you grow into who you are going to be as a woman. boys will be boys and there is not very much that you can not do about that, they have to make themselves look good at all times. and that means that they at sometime or an other he will make a fool of himself at your expense
2007-05-26 11:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with no one to compare you to, how in the world can he say you are a bad kisser? Maybe he just doesn't like kissing, period. Next boyfriend, just let him take the lead and do what he does. It's not an exact science. In fact, it's not science at all. I used to worry about that too but you learn through doing and it's just not a big deal. Your ex is a dork.
2007-05-26 09:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh me.... he is just being mean to you because he can and he knows it gets your goat. Ignore him. Kissing is not meant to be a technique. Just kiss the next guy the way that feels natural to you and don't worry about what the ex-jerk said. He really did a number on your self-esteem didn't he? You're better than he says. Remind yourself of that every time it starts bringing you to believe his critcisms!
2007-05-26 09:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different with each guy. And how come if he has never kissed anyone before say that you suck at it. And there is no way to improve unless you go around kissing guys: practice makes perfection. But since you are not then, just ignore it.
2007-05-26 09:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Puffgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls have said I kiss too wet also so I kiss there neck instead or other parts of their body.
And if they really want a kiss, I kiss the girl very quickly on the mouth so there is no time for water to come out of my mouth.
2007-05-26 09:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not; the real problem might not be kissing, it should be something else which shows up in kissing complaining. The wet lips while kissing are not bad at all
2007-05-26 09:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you kisses were to wet put on some chap stick.If you feel when he's critisizing you he's doing it to be mean you, you need to tell him how you feel about or it's over. Last, when you kiss him feel relaxed don't think you have to french kiss or kiss like striper to impress him because he should love you no mater what your kisses are like.
2007-05-26 09:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh. that happened to me. guys can be so shallow. well before you kiss/if you know you're going to you should quickly eat a mint so you don't have bad breath. and if you make out with him just go with the flow. don't suck his face off, but don't not move your tounge. and if you don't want it to be wet don't lick your lips a lot? and the guys probably just giving you crap because he wants to bring you down.
2007-05-26 09:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by nicki. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might sound funny but My friends used to practice on their hand when it is in a fist (thumb and finger) and anyway he should not be making you paranoid about your kissing technique
2007-05-26 09:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you have to learn yourself. There are no kissing teachers.
2007-05-26 09:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋