what is the exact appeal women have for male strippers that they often have sex with them at the shows(the private hotel/ home shows that they come to)-i have heard of girls about to be married even doing this, and some weddings being called off because of it.
2007-05-26 09:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Men do this too. I think it is about the person you are marrying and your trust for them. Alot of women look at it as more of a form of entertainment however every group has a wild child that may leave with the stripper and that goes for both male and females. I told my fiancee if they are going to get him one I prefer they go to a strip bar and not an at home party because it is a more controlled enviorment he says he does not want one but you never know. marriage is about trust if you trust her it's not as big of an issue as you think. I would never consider ruining my relationship for any man especially a stripper.
2007-05-26 09:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the women having sex with male strippers at private parties does happen, occasionally, but probably not as much as you are "hearing". I think that it is more likely for men to have sex with female strippers.
I know a couple of male strippers and they NEVER have sex with the women at parties. There is a lot of mutual flirting and touching, but no sex (that's a rule of theirs). It would be totally inappropriate to do so at a party where they are being paid to perform.
But, in a nut shell, the bride to be is getting attention from a hot guy (the stripper); she's drinking so her inhibitions are thrown into the wind and she's around her good friends. She thinks no one will find out.
2007-05-26 23:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Susan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason men do it I suppose. And, men do this way more often than women. Most times the show is just for fun. Women are not as visual beings as men and most need to be stimulated emotionally and mentally, not just visually which is why you don't see nearly as many male strip shows as you do topless bars.
2007-05-26 16:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by weddingqueen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mostly it is because they can dance and they take care of their bodies. I've only gone once, being drunk, I sure wanted to, but didn't. I had good friends with me.
2007-05-26 16:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Naturenut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋