I have this boyfriedn but things are just not going right and i dont no what to do...because we argue to much and we argue all the time and he made me cry to many times we have broke up lots of times but he always comes back and he says he sorry and i take him back because i love him to much...But im kinda losing interest for him but then im not and im tired of agueing and fighting and braking up...I just dont no what to do.
2007-05-26 09:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by babiigiirl925 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have said you broke up with him and fight with him, and he made you cry. Question why would you want to be with someone that your constantly having to do battle with, and someone that makes you cry? I would break it off for good, move on, and don't look back. You'll be better off for doing so. You may love him, I've loved plenty of times, but if I've ended up with any of them, knowing what I know now, I would be a wreck, so I advise you break up with him, he's not worth it.
2007-05-26 09:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by rachel t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've already lost interest in a relationship with him. He always comes back because he doesn't want to be lonely, and you keep accepting him back because he's a familiar figure and you're lonely, too! Just end it for good, because if you're fighting all the time, it's not normal. Normal relationships don't fight all the time; they listen to each other and come to an agreement (even if it's just to disagree).
Move on and tell him to do the same. Good luck!
2007-05-26 16:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by moosesandsnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same boat right now. my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have a 1 year old daughter. we fought a lot before i got pregnant, a lot more during the pregnancy, and tons after. i ended up leaving him back in october, for about a month, and then we decided to try. lately, fighting has started back up again and both of us are unhappy. the difference between us is that i have a daughter in this relationship. therefore, i'm going to try as long as i physically can. you, on the other hand, aren't as tied into the relationship as i am. if i didn't have a child, i wouldn't be in this relationship. i know you love your boyfriend, but sometimes people just aren't meant to be together. talk to your boyfriend and be honest about your feelings. it may hurt, but he deserves honesty. and you both owe it to yourselves to be happy in your lives, even if it means you are happy with other people. talk to him. maybe the relationship can be salvaged. if it can't, be honest to him and to yourself and end it. i'm sure things will all work out in the end. good luck.
2007-05-26 16:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by newman63114@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should treat his girl like she is the best thing that's happened in her life. ANY guy who made me cry isn't worth knowing me anymore!
2007-05-26 16:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty much like that old shirt you just loved to wear five years ago?? It just does NOT fit anymore but you can't bring yourself to throw it away! Well, throw it away!!!! It isn't goin to suddenly fit again. Time to move on.
2007-05-26 16:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are DONE and you are moving on and you hope he finds happiness and a girl that can put up with all his angst
2007-05-26 17:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up
2007-05-26 16:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋