i have no contact with him, as he wants nothing to do with his child, and has said so to the solicitor, so why does he have to loiter near my little ones nursery? the first nursery he went to last year my ex did the same ! my little one wasnt settling there so i took him out and my ex is now being spotted at the new one? the person who spotted him said to me that maybe he is checking to see how we both are ? but he has my number and he knows where we live
2007-05-26 09:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
his nursery already know that only me to pick little one up as i explained about him not having contact with sperm doner. and they will definatly only let me collect him as i was outside sorting his buggy out and my sister walked in and they asked who she was and that his mom hadnt authorised anyone to collect him
2007-05-26 09:32:21 · update #1
just to confirm i have never stopped him from seeing his child, my son was askiing questions about daddy when i was at the solicitors trying to sort out child support payments, so the solicitor wrote this on the letters saying that child was asking questions and ex wrote back saying he wanted nothing to do with child now or in the future!!!! i have never dissed my ex infront of child as im not that twisted i would love our child to of had a dad in its life.. but after he has written to the solicitor saying he wants nothing to do with the child then he can go through court. NOT STALK US
2007-05-27 07:39:15 · update #2
maybe he is a gutless man. and maybe he realises just what he has said to the solicitor, ie not wanting anything to do with child now or in the future ???? i would still warn the nursery that he has been spotted outside just so that they can be on guard. and you are rite i would let him pay for a solicitor if he now wants to see the child
2007-05-28 07:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstly if you told the school only you should collect him then that's what they are doing isn't it, secondly he might want contact with his child and not you, the child is in titled to know his father so write him a letter saying if this is what he wants perhaps you could come to some arrangement, at least you are giving your child a chance to know his dad, good bad or indifferant he is his father, and the child wont thank you for it in the end if it's you stoping his dad from seeing his dad, write the letter and see whay he says you havn't got anything to loose have you,and who knows he could become the best dad in the world if his still an **** then you can tell your child you trye'd copy the letter get it witnessed by a friend and you will have that effort to show your child when he is older, good luck be the bigger party over this,
2007-05-27 07:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he an ex or just a sperm donor? Either way may be he didnt want anything to do with his child at the start but it looks as though without a doubt he's interested now. Why dont you contact him first and try and find out what he is up to or maybe just get some advice from your local authorities.
2007-05-26 23:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Magster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might we worth phoning him to see what he's up to, but I realise that might not be appropriate.
You should definately speak to the staff at the nursery and make sure they know that under no circumstances is anyone allowed to collect your child other than you.
2007-05-26 09:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best case, he wants to know how you are doing and doesn't want to call for fear that a fight will break out. Worst case, he's planning how to take back his kid and run. Watch him and tell the preschool that he is not to pick up the child under any circumstance.
2007-05-26 09:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is ashamed of himself and only wants to see how his child is growing. Maybe you could extend the offering one more time to see if he feels differently now and wants to be a part of his child's future. What do you have to lose?
2007-05-26 09:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the police tell then the whole story and get them to question him about his actions and find out why he is hanging around the child's school.
2007-05-27 10:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Granny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch he doesnt snatch the child warn the nursery he must not be taken by anyone but you
2007-05-26 09:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. It sounds like he's stalking.
2007-05-26 09:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a different number. have him arrested for stalking. get a personal protection order. or go up to him and ask him WTF
2007-05-26 09:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by wee willie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋