So I met this guy in one of my classes, we chatted alot about ourselves like our likes dislikes, etc. And I was really starting getiing into this guy, there was one evening where I caught him saying "I really like this girl" and then he looks at me and pauses all of a sudden. We went on a sort of a date, the conversation was not bad. Anyways after that night he started to get distant and I really don't know why.... anyways for months I've been trying to contact him, like for instance asking him how has he been doing etc, He never responded to any of the messages, until one time I text message him on how I heard a rumor that he liked me, he of course said he did not like me. Yet then I caught him talking about me and how he can get me out his head, and the fact that I spoted him aroung school staring at me. Of course he blocks me for like 5 months then all of the sudden he decides to unblock me and still does not say anything. Any suggestions as to what I should do?
2007-05-26 09:28:59 · 19 answers · asked by Heart 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too good to play these little games. Just forget about him and if he knows what is good for him he will come to his senses and come after you in a mature way. Guys like this sometimes just like the chase and the game. Forget about him and find someone worth your time. Good Luck!
2007-05-26 09:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by helicopterjen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy is just nervous for whatever reason. Maybe nervous to get into a relationship? Maybe about what people will say? You never know. I suggest ignoring him because maybe you're being too clingy. When you pull away from him, he might come crawling back to you. If he does this, you know he really does like you.
Guys are really really really stupid...I can't believe we have to put up with them. I hate them sometimes..but I really can't like without them, haha.
2007-05-26 13:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by YanksFan223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out directly form him Why he never returned your communication.Never ASSUME anything maybe his Life was in crisis , maybe he was not referring to you, Maybe a thousand other things ,but direct communcation without assumption is the True way to handle This.I hope this answer help if not seek others my advise is heatfelt but I don't claim much expertise in matters of the heart .I seek no attachment as life philosophy .
2007-05-26 10:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Elbert C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Two things. One: forget him and move on with you life. Why is he so important to you anyhow? And two: try the direct approach. Find him and pull him out of view. Talk to him sincerely, but plainly.
Tell him what you see inside yourself for him, and then tell him what you think you have figured out about his feelings for you. He is afraid of something, that is no question. Perhaps reassure him that whatever he is afraid of or afraid to tell you, you can handle it and that he can confide in you. Even if it turns out that he really is gay, just with mixed feelings.
-Wolfy
2007-05-26 09:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's confused with what he really wants. He may just want to keep his options open right now and doesn't want to get into a relationship. Just keep being friendly and don't push him to hang out or talk to you and he may (or may not) come around. As long as you're friendly and not creepy maybe one of his friends or aquaintances will take notice of you instead!
2007-05-26 09:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzlenose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him and give yourself a chance to like a guy without so many weird issues. Like, find a guy who actually wants to talk to you.
2007-05-26 09:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice for you is to just act like he doesn't exist. Make him seem invisible. Don't look at him, don't talk about him, just don't even think about him. Obviously he's playing games with you and if he likes you that much then eventually he'll come to you.
2007-05-26 09:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like shy to me. im sure he likes u but hes to shy to do nething about it. if u like him u should ask him out or somethinglike that. has he had a gf since ur "date". cause if he has that might have something to do w/ it but i don't think thats it. i think hes just shy. maybe talk to one of his friends that kno 2. good luck!!!
2007-05-26 09:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by lorelei0706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously doesn't like you if he doesn't call you back or acknowledge you. Move on find someone else. It could just be a joke or something.
2007-05-26 09:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. if he is playing little games even before you start a relationship just think how bad it will get if you actually start seeing each other
2007-05-26 09:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋