Family & Relationships - 26 May 2007

okay i like this guy (it goes on and off like a lightswitch) and he likes me back. im positive- my name is written in hearts on his note book, and he wrote me a note giving me 10 reasons why he likes me. good thing is i like him too so im okay with this-
BUT
i have known him for some time now, and he has asked out some people (ahem i am in middle school here keep it in mind) and thats okay and all, but i know him well enough that when he likes someone, he askes them out. but he hasnt asked me out. i just think it is weird because i dont think he has ever liked a girl as much as he likes me now. i mean i would have to say no because i cant date, and i would rather be erally good friends, but just im so surprised that he hasnt asked me. why am i different from all the other times he;s asked someone out?

2007-05-26 11:46:37 · 1 answers · asked by SILVER 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 11:44:45 · 15 answers · asked by mary 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I do all sorts of erotic things together and one thing we just tried is the "golden shower" and he loves it! And well... I do as well :-) Anyone else out there like the same fetish?

2007-05-26 11:42:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi,
I have this friend who lives with her parents, anyway when ever we have a fight or disagreement and we call each other up, she always puts me on speaker phone so that her parents can hear me talk, but she thinks I have never known this, I have also heard her mum whispering to her telling her what to say to me. Anyway i asked her about it, & she said that her mum just happens to walk in & hear!
she says i have my B-friend to talk to, but the thing she doesn't seem to get is, i don't put her on speaker phone so that he can hear too, i have more respect than that.
She can't seem to have a conversation without her parents in the room, she is 28.
Do you think this is rude?

2007-05-26 11:29:37 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't really have that many friends to hang out with. I always consider myself an honest and friendly guy. Recently a friend's group who I have hung out with a couple times didn't invite me to an occasion which a few other people went to. Apparently, they didnt want anyone to come with them but didnt want to say no. Now I am wondering if they ever wanted me to some with them on the few previous occasions.

My friend always complains and argues with them, yet he still hangs out with them.

I feel really unwanted and Im just trying to find where I belong.

2007-05-26 11:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

help! super boredom! my brother needed my car, so now i need to know what to do!!!

2007-05-26 11:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by jen 2 in Friends

My wife wants me to wear a thong,she said its for men thong,I 'll be look good on thong ,cos I workout,but I told her I dont wanna wear a thong,because I think thong is only for women,but she told me men also wear them,I told her yeah gay men,I''m straight and I dont wanna wear whether its men thong.what do you think I'm I right or her?

2007-05-26 11:21:04 · 16 answers · asked by jeff 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone?

2007-05-26 11:17:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-26 11:16:25 · 15 answers · asked by kramer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going into the 7th grade this year and all of my friends have cell phones. I have tried to convince my mom and dad so many times and they have still said no. I pretty much have everything else (not to brag) but still no cell phone. should I have one?

2007-05-26 11:16:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

--I just really wanna know if its normal to go to psychologist for some family problems im having with my parents since im still livng with them. Plizz tell me would you do that or have you?

--But i feel kinda shame to go at this age. Im not a kid or anything. im 19.

--Why do i feel like im the only one dong this. N its not like they are forcing me. I kinda want also. Cuz the problems are biig that im havin with them.

So tell me,...do you go? How aold are you and what you go for? If youd like 2 share of course. Thanks. :-)

2007-05-26 11:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Some men believe their wife's body is their property and so they can have sex no matter if she consents or not. It's hard to call it rape in a marriage. The cops are reluctant to call it that because they weren't there to see a wife struggling and begging him to stop. they probably just think that it was rough sex, when a man rapes his wife it hurts so deeply because when a wife doesn't want to make love there usually is an underlying reason. Some of mine were illness,just gave birth, knew he was cheating, tired ,mad at him,and the fact that i was sick of being beaten definitely took away my sex drive, When a man just takes it. it strips away the last bit of conrtol a woman has. This is serious agony. I used to love him but now the very thought of him sends chills all through my body. No, I did not like it. I really wanted & begged him to stop, Not only did he rape me he got me pregnant. I love my baby but why did I have to get pregnant. This happened after I finally got fed up w/ him.

2007-05-26 11:13:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have had a long distance marriage for sometime and she had been telling that she has been feeling very lonely off late.As a person she needs regular sex and I think its the lack of this which has led her to cheat on our marriage.I feel so coz I saw a pack of condomns in our house which do not belong to me.On asking her she confessed that she had sex but,she isnt having an affair.It was a one night stand coz she was too lonely and could not resist the temptation.She said that she tried all possible sex toys but it did not work.She is convincing me that these rules of marriage are society created and as long as she is not into a full-fledged affair she is not cheating on me.Just that she as a person finds the urge for regular sex and finds it difficult to resisit if she doesnt get it for sometime.She is very loving and a very caring person otherwise.I am really not sure what should i do?

2007-05-26 11:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by Silvio D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have tried everything I know that I am the boss but I feel like I am threatening and they are always punished I am so disgusted I feel as though I am a horrible parent because of this. There fathers have nothing to do with either of them and to be honest I am quite embarrassed by there behavior!
They enbarrass the day light out of me. I try so hard! Please help!!

2007-05-26 11:04:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want some sexy ideas for a romantic nite alone with my man. we havent gotten to b together for a few wks. I want this to be especially good. Guys-what is it ud want. NO 3SOMES.
Girls-what r ur ideas?

Word wisely in case some younger kids havea look.

2007-05-26 10:59:14 · 15 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok Im 15 and my mom says I cant have my licence until one month before Im 17 isnt that so ***** everyone says Im a good driver ok even when I got my permit my instructor said I was oe of the est hes had in years and he couldnt say that often ok and my mom says well your gonna wait like your brothers it sucks whio agrees?????????

2007-05-26 10:54:47 · 24 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

How far back have you traced your family history? I'm interested to know how far you've gotten and have you found any interesting things about them?

2007-05-26 10:53:33 · 13 answers · asked by Princess of the Realm 6 in Family

no booz avaliable, and ur stuck home by your self?

2007-05-26 10:53:32 · 4 answers · asked by manders_1589 1 in Friends

for my wedding i am having 2 flower girls (they are sisters) and i dont know what to get them for thank you presents, i dont want to get anything expensive but they can keep for awhile. Any ideas?

2007-05-26 10:51:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a friend who is the sweetest person alive as well as wickedly funny, but it seems like no one else wants to give her a chance. She's Mormon and very personally pious, and doesn't tolerate things like swearing or violence very well. People always ask me why we're friends since I'm an atheist and swear like a trucker and I keep telling them that it's because she's really cool and funny and it's nice to be around someone who is just nice. I also feel like she gets hassled a lot. What can I do? She is one of the greatest people I've ever met, and I'd like other people to realize it.

2007-05-26 10:46:52 · 4 answers · asked by Nipivy 4 in Friends

For example, if a woman is in medical school, why do some men get mad at that, and decide to date other women? Why can't they just wait for the original woman to finish school, then she will give her man all the love and affection he needs?

2007-05-26 10:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 10:35:51 · 11 answers · asked by torrie m 1 in Singles & Dating

well my best friend is a boy named logan larue and my boyfriend will get mad if i tell him i like logan and i dont know if logan likes me

2007-05-26 10:30:02 · 2 answers · asked by coolcat 1 in Singles & Dating

You know how they say, if you love something let it go, if it comes back it was always yours, and if it doesn't it was never yours?

What if you let it go, and it comes back, and you have to let it go again?
Seriously...you can only let something go so many times.

2007-05-26 10:28:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, he is not the greatest looking, but everyone knows it, he has a HUGE crush on me. he is even writing a book, and he will only let me edit it, and this book is really long!!!! I really dont know what to do, im really flattered but all of my friends say he is a complete nerd!! please help me!!!!

2007-05-26 10:27:43 · 22 answers · asked by StuffitTuff 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy from the net and we got to know each other, he gave me both his contact numbers and mailing addresses. he told me he worked from the uk internationally and travels alot and his job is really demanding. me and him met up on my birthday, he bought me a really nice present. He told me he was going paris the next day and as the evening progressed we ended up going back to his hotel room and sleeping together. He told me he enjoyed himself and that he would call me when he came back. He even texted me later that day to let me know he was getting into paris and would call when he came back. he has not called yet but i dont know how long he has gone for. I did reply to his text five days later telling him i look forward to his call but have not heard from him yet. should i call him as the last thing i wanted was a one night stand? or should i wait?

2007-05-26 10:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never thought I'd be in this situation. My husband is a good guy, but he drinks alot and it's to the point that it is causing tension on our relationship. I'm not happy because of the alcohol (I was subjected to alot of pretty bad things as a child due to drinking) and he's not happy because we've grown upart emotionally and physically...he thinks that I'm not interested in him anymore...that I'm not attracted to him and he doesn't feel wanted. I can't get him to understand that I cannot be with an alcoholic, I am interested and attracted to him when he's sober, but the first thing he does when he gets home is crack open a beer. Also, as far as the intimacy problem goes I have always had some issues because I was molested when younger (he knows about it.) I really don't know what to do next. He doesn't want to try counselling or even church. We're talking about spending some time upart, but what if we never get back together? I don't want to throw almost 13 years away. Any advice?

2007-05-26 10:23:32 · 18 answers · asked by mindy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We were supposed to spend the Memorial Day weekend at our lakehouse. Because the weather called for rain, my husband decided for all of us, three families, that we weren't going because it might rain and he would be bored. He said there was no use going because he couldn't get out on the water in his new boat. We all told him that even if it rained, we could all have a good time and get in the water inbetween periods of rain, but he insisted it was useless going. Well.. it hasn't rained a drop today and the chances of rain for the next two days are minimal compaired to the chance today. Do you think he had the right to make this decision for everyone because of his selfishness and do you think I have the right to be upset with him?

2007-05-26 10:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by jrtexas1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is a really popular girl but in my dreams she has a crush on me? very strange... what should i do? is it more than me having a crush on her?

2007-05-26 10:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Singles & Dating

...get "wet"?
Oh my gosh! I feel terrible just typing that sick thing out! I'm so sorry!
I think it is! I think it's disgusting and everytime my boyfriend likes to take his hands and lift me up there when we're kissing or something, I just grab his hands and move them because I never know about myself and to be honest, it's embarassing! When he asks why, and what's the difference between my jeans and skin? I just say "just that," and that I think it's gross and ask him why he would want to? If I were a guy, I don't know...sick, sick, sick. Just yesterday when this happened again, I was like, "well, what if I stuck my hands down your pants? that would be gross, huh?" And he gave a typical nasty guy answer, but I swear he's just kidding! I don't know... I don't know if I'm just a prude or what, but I don't know what goes on in guys minds. Thanks for any input.

2007-05-26 10:21:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating