...get "wet"?
Oh my gosh! I feel terrible just typing that sick thing out! I'm so sorry!
I think it is! I think it's disgusting and everytime my boyfriend likes to take his hands and lift me up there when we're kissing or something, I just grab his hands and move them because I never know about myself and to be honest, it's embarassing! When he asks why, and what's the difference between my jeans and skin? I just say "just that," and that I think it's gross and ask him why he would want to? If I were a guy, I don't know...sick, sick, sick. Just yesterday when this happened again, I was like, "well, what if I stuck my hands down your pants? that would be gross, huh?" And he gave a typical nasty guy answer, but I swear he's just kidding! I don't know... I don't know if I'm just a prude or what, but I don't know what goes on in guys minds. Thanks for any input.
2007-05-26 10:21:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha, I'm 17 guys ;)
2007-05-26 10:37:08 · update #1
No. It's a good thing. It means, whatever we were doing is turning you on -- your body was getting ready for sex. The wetness/moistness is basically a lubrication. It shouldn't be embarassing, but by the sound of your tone in the question above, I'd say you are too young to be having sex so it's a good thing that you pulled his hand away. Don't do it unless you are ready to accept the consequesnces of your actions (pregnancy, STDs, etc.) and you are ready emotionally. Some people even wait until marriage!
2007-05-26 10:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm genderqueer wearing a man-body and I think men are gross. Gross in mind and body. The more macho they act the grosser they seem to me. Also, I don't like some of my guy stuff - hair sprouting from everyplace you can think of, being so big, etc. There is *one* guy thing I really do like about me - and it may be the only thing some guys have going for them - yes, Mr. Jones Sorry guys but you know its true, you pee on the floor, can't find stuff because you don't really "LOOK", you act entitled (get me a beer - and stuff like that), you fart, you leave your clothes on the floor, you don't like to brush your teeth and bathe, etc... Overall, just a gross lot Now, not all men and not all the time, but by and large, most men.
2016-05-18 04:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy's curious about a females body and wants to touch or wants to know if the female is sexually aroused, it would please him to discover she's wet.
Female lubrication is natural and necessary so further probing or penetration is not painful for her.
It seems to me you're not ready for intimate sexual exploration if that aspect turns you off. There's nothing wrong with you, by the way. You're simply not quite ready for intimate touch.
I didn't permit that kind of touch when I was 15 -17 yrs of age, either. It's not like young guys are very good at earning that level of trust. As you sexually mature beyond your present desire to be close and you find a different person to be with, you will find a different response within yourself.
Anxiety or repulsion will be replaced with longing for the person's touch.
2007-06-03 03:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by reeksofhoney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a very natural and necessary part of the process. I am a little surprised at how sick this idea makes you feel. Maybe finding a professional who can assist you in normalising your attitude will help. This is really a part of our make up as women and its nothing to be ashamed about.
2007-06-02 21:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey do you thing its gross because you know deep down inside you really really like and don't know how to handle it?
I just think you are a undercover freak.
2007-06-03 10:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wetness ia a sign of sexual arousal.I find it very sexy not gross.It sounds like you are not comfortable with your body.You also might be nervous of taking it beyond just touching.You might want to try playing with yourself until you feel comfortable with the feeling.then let your boyfriend do it.You really just need to be more free with your body.
2007-05-26 10:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by john s 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be more concerned about NOT getting wet. now that would be a problem. my boyfriend told me "It's super hot when a girl gets really wet." they love it because it lets them know that they are turning you on.
2007-05-26 10:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Love Child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just normal.Take it easy play it cool.
im telling u frm personal exp.
dont take tension just keep ur boyfriend happy thats it and he will take care of the rest of the things.
2007-06-03 08:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by enriquez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, getting wet is your bodies natural reaction to being sexually aroused. PLEASE TAKE IT SLOWLY. You can't undo something once it has been done. I don't mean just having sex, I mean any physical activity. Don't rush into anything, even if you think you are ready. Enjoy being with your friends and be a kid!
2007-05-26 10:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Deonna R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
men thinks its hot n kind of flatterring,,,, personally there aint nothing wrong or gross with ti n u need to understand that its all a part of your natural anatomy
2007-05-26 10:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋