I don't really have that many friends to hang out with. I always consider myself an honest and friendly guy. Recently a friend's group who I have hung out with a couple times didn't invite me to an occasion which a few other people went to. Apparently, they didnt want anyone to come with them but didnt want to say no. Now I am wondering if they ever wanted me to some with them on the few previous occasions.
My friend always complains and argues with them, yet he still hangs out with them.
I feel really unwanted and Im just trying to find where I belong.
2007-05-26 11:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well they don't sound like real friends, and so I would move on and find friends that want to hang out, and enjoy spending time with you.
2007-05-26 11:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, I have a group of "friends" like that too. Sometimes, I just really pull away from them because of the hurt they cause me. It hurts when they do stuff and never invite, I want to be included too. The thing is they are not true friends, even though I want them to be. Hang in there.
2007-05-26 18:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by r41pi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if this person is considered a friend.It's best to stay away from unwanted places.Your friend sounds like he is trying to be popular with this group.Sooner or later your friend will realize you are a true friend.In the meantime make some new friends and keep your chin up.Things will get better.Nothing ever stays the same.And if your friend decides to go with this group don't take it personally.He had to move on.And so can you.
2007-05-26 18:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by sharen d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they don't want to include you, they probably aren't the kind of friends you want. Hmmm....(I know what I want to say, but it's hard to put into words...) Don't stress about it too much. You know, everything happens for a reason. Them not including you is telling you that those people aren't who you want to be friends with. You might not have many friends to hang out with because you are too dependent on your friends making friends for you. You need to keep your mind open and become more independent. Be a bit more social, and make new friends. I know it's hard, because I've encountered the same problem. There'll be someone who talks to you that you'll become friends with. It's hard, I know, but just become more independent, go to more social events, and start talking to new people. I know that there are people out there who will actually want to be friends with you and hang out with you. Just wait. It'll happen.
2007-05-26 18:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off. you need to find real friends. ones who will include you and friends that are real friends
what you have now are not real friends
you are better off alone for now then to be with back stabbers as you call friends.
2007-05-26 18:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw them. They suck and your friend does too!
2007-05-26 18:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋