--I just really wanna know if its normal to go to psychologist for some family problems im having with my parents since im still livng with them. Plizz tell me would you do that or have you?
--But i feel kinda shame to go at this age. Im not a kid or anything. im 19.
--Why do i feel like im the only one dong this. N its not like they are forcing me. I kinda want also. Cuz the problems are biig that im havin with them.
So tell me,...do you go? How aold are you and what you go for? If youd like 2 share of course. Thanks. :-)
2007-05-26 11:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I went when I got divorced. It really helped me and the kids get used to being alone.
2007-05-26 11:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by FireBug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to the psychologist is so normal. Like a cold in day in Alaska. Don't be embarrased to go. Psychologists are people that are there to help you. I am sure that they have gotten cases like yours before and they know what to do. If you still feel like you shouldn't go then why don't you confide in a close friend? I am sure that will be a lot of help,too. I went to the psychologist once I am still 15, and I went because I was very self-conscious about my weight. Good luck.
2007-05-26 11:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by xpartyinmypantsx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Im 21 and I have been going to therapy since age of 8. I had a very hard life but therapy has helped me tremendously over the years. It's nice to be able to talk to someone who will just listen to you, its a good venting to and you'll be surprised how good you feel!!!!! Your definetly not the only one soooo many people go to therapy!! Try writing in a journal too!! These 2 things should help you!!!!
2007-05-26 11:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people spend time on the couch to work thru family problems. It helps to sort thru things, figure out how to deal with something should it come about in the future, etc.
I saw one for years as a kid as part of my therapy for ADD. Was no biggie for me.
Been seeing one with my kid for years as well to help him deal with some stuff too.
2007-05-26 12:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I do. I am 21 years old and still living at home and my mom drives me crazy. I really need to move out but I really wouldnt make it on my own... I actually go for unresolved childhood issues. Its really like this pain will never go way... oh well. Hope that helps. Good luck.
2007-05-26 11:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by 91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely.completely normal and no reason to be ashamed. if we can't figure stuff out on our own,why not find someone neutral who can help us? i have seen a doc for some years now and i have a friend who started a year ago b/c she just wasn't moving on with her life. we have both benefitted from it. go see one. what have you got to lose?
2007-05-26 12:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i went to one when i was in Jr high because of family problems it helped to talk my feelings out with my parents i am 37 and i am so close to them NOW that i talk to them everyday it helps talking to someone who is not part of the family
2007-05-26 11:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a job and move out
2007-05-26 11:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋