i met this guy from the net and we got to know each other, he gave me both his contact numbers and mailing addresses. he told me he worked from the uk internationally and travels alot and his job is really demanding. me and him met up on my birthday, he bought me a really nice present. He told me he was going paris the next day and as the evening progressed we ended up going back to his hotel room and sleeping together. He told me he enjoyed himself and that he would call me when he came back. He even texted me later that day to let me know he was getting into paris and would call when he came back. he has not called yet but i dont know how long he has gone for. I did reply to his text five days later telling him i look forward to his call but have not heard from him yet. should i call him as the last thing i wanted was a one night stand? or should i wait?
2007-05-26
10:26:16
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religion is hindu, he is muslim
2007-05-26
10:32:16 ·
update #1
he did not just text me, he called me and everything he told me over the net and fone turned out to be true. I.e. his car, him, his name, his job.
2007-05-26
10:42:07 ·
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well would have talked to you differently if you were a muslim. Anyhow, i believe that if someone is really interested he should ask his parents to meet yours n get married..Tell him this !.all other stuff is nonsense n unethical i swear ..otherwise he will use you n leave you for sure. Don't let him touch you anymore just tell him if he likes you he should marry n see his response..you will get all your answers trust me.
2007-05-26 10:29:45
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answered by Anonymous
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omggggggg hindu-muslim??? u know how that works!!!!...
walk away, you are upsetting yourself over a guy that is totally not worth it.. y do u want to be with a guy that used u?.. ur only going to upset ur family and those around u.. there is nothing in this relationship. Call it a bad experience and lesson learnt.. end it here...
when i mentioned before that i was in the same situation, ok well i'm hindu and he is muslim. The issue of religion will definately come up... there's no getting away from it, and no he wasn't any different. Just walk away now and don't look back. Any further doubt then just message me and i'll be happy to explain more in detail...
2007-05-26 17:35:45
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answered by Anonymous
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You do understand that with texting and the Internet, a person can tell any story about themselves that they can dream up.
You only got the store he chose to tell you. Please be wary of strangers.
I could tell you I am a Power Ball winner and looking for a partner to take around the world with me . I will pay for everything . We will travel first class and be gone 6 months.
You will have your own hotel room everywhere and spending money. Do you believe this???
NONE of it is true. A person can say anything on the Internet and thru texting. He could be sitting at a desk at home married with children and bills and you have no way of knowing the truth.
I hope I am wrong, but I think he probably got what he wanted, a one night stand with no obligations.
I wrote all of the above before I saw that he is Muslim. YIKES;
I have read to many stores about American girls marrying Men from that area of the world, having a family and then taking the children there to visit his family and never bringing them home.
So please consider an American man raised here, family here and without foreign family. Just to be safe.
2007-05-26 17:38:12
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answered by ? 7
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It appears that he may have taken advantage of you in order to meet his physical needs. He gave your every reason imaginable that would give you an indication that his intentions were sincere and good. If he was communicating with you before you had sex, he can do the same after-wards. The decision to wait on him to call is yours, but as I have experienced in past, it's best to learn from this experience, move forward and tighten up your standards on what you expect from guys you just meet. If you have sex too soon with a guy you just meet, they may not respect you ( I know this is a double standard for sure) Make 'em wait and see how long they stick around. This may weed out those guys who are just looking to have sex without committing to the person.
2007-05-26 17:37:31
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answered by Mandy 2
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Honestly, you might want to contact him. He might have felt rejected if you waited 5 days after the date to contact him. Just shoot him a text asking how he is and see where it goes! Good luck!
2007-05-26 17:32:33
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answered by mom of two 2
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I would wait. Men do like women to chase them, but just wait, give him a couple of weeks and then ring, if he doesnt sound as interested or doesnt answer or reply to your call, its best just to leave it well alone.
2007-05-26 17:48:19
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answered by Unhinged.... 5
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Give him a few more days,if he still hasn't been in touch,maybe you have been played,sounds a bit dodgy to me.....
2007-05-26 17:33:22
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answered by picklechick 4
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If you wait you will always wonder "what if". Call him!
2007-05-26 17:35:01
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answered by opieann 1
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CALL HIM THEN YOU KNOW
2007-05-26 17:42:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Call him, but its not sounding great............... Sorry :>(
2007-05-26 17:32:45
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answered by Nev 4
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