Family & Relationships - 26 May 2007

.... you are with your in-laws and they say something hurtful or cunning to you, to corner or embarras you and you feel wierd ?
How do you react, at that time.
I`m very respectful to my parents- and siblings-in-law, as they are all older than mw .... but then hurtful things happen and I`m all hurt and feeling bad ... and remain silent ... but the situation never changes as they keep acting that way .... whats the best way to act in this situation ?

2007-05-26 16:04:10 · 2 answers · asked by Who? 2 in Family

this girl who has a bf in germany (she is here in Canada now for 1 year) gives me confusing signs...she winks at me everytime she talks to me and it's pretty obvious that my friends ask me "why does she do that ? is there anything between u and her?" everytime she sees me at hallway she comes in contact with me (body contact)every time she sends me a msg she says at the end " bussal " which mean " kiss on cheek"...she is very friendly with me....my prom is in 2 weeks and im just wondering if i can take her with me(nohing nasty )...
what do u think ????!!!!

2007-05-26 16:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 16:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by davepetlick26 1 in Singles & Dating

1. ok so im 14 going 15.i have never had a bf and there are guys that do like me but somehow i don't have any feeling for them. when they says i like you to me. all i think about is aww how cute and sweet they like me or ewwww!! there is one guy that is like me and i kinda like him,but im scared to say anything. what should i do?is it normal??


2. i don't know why guys find me interesting but im not. im just sporty and i can protect myself. im mean and i guess you can called me a tomboy. my biggest problem is why am i not like the other girls and why do guys like that. do they?

2007-05-26 16:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by sweety84pie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 15:54:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she thinks that the 2 year difference is a little wierd, and we said that we would continue the conversation later, and i really like her and need help on how to convince her that 2 years isnt that much of a difference. plz help

2007-05-26 15:49:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and ryan are good friends.and today in science class me,amber,and ryan were by the chalckboard writing things. and amber wrote 'Chelsea is.....' but she didnt finish it. when ryan saw it,he put 'hot'. So it read 'Chelsea is hot'. so does he like me? he also flirts with me.

Chelsea is me by the way lol


Also today me and him were talking about him not being at school next week. and when we were talking about he said 'I will bring a picture of you, so i can look at you when i'm gone'


So what do you think? does he like me

2007-05-26 15:48:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a nice gue and i dont want to heart him but he controls all my hangouts

2007-05-26 15:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i spyed on my grandma. she took my brothers to her house. grandma never did for me. why hadnt grandma favored me the way she did to the boys? my feelings for grandma turned cold. the women who used to take care of me had turned into a moster. now all i have left is hatred. i heard grandma giving them cookies, telling them stories and giving them snacks. i heard them eating their snacks. those lucky ducks! it made me feel sick inside. i hated seeing them get good things. i didnt even deserve a glance at the good life. i am a stupid nothing to my grandma and im just a pawn in her stupid games. at night, i no longer dreamed. during the day, i no longer thinked. when i woke up, i was no longer refreshed. without my dreams, i felt hopeless. i told myself my grandma does love me, that always made me smile. but deep down, i knew it was a fantasy. whenever i walked outside, a feeling of darkness came over me. it dawned on me that grandma no longer loved me. i felt so rejected. even the sun tried to avoid me. as i spyed i could hear her soothing voice telling them a story. i hated each and everyone of them. it was bad enough hearing her tell them the story. it reminded me of the good grandma i had many years ago. now the boys even refused to let me come. i no longer cared when my brothers made fun of me. my soul became so cold that i hated everything around me. i hated the sound of my brothers laughing and them getting treats from my grandma. my stomach coiled when i heard grandma saying i love you to my brothers knowing it wasnt meant for me. i hated grandma and wish she were dead. but before she died, i wanted her to feel my pain. as i spyed, i imagined i was one of them and i smiled.

2007-05-26 15:46:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-26 15:46:22 · 1 answers · asked by Loreta S 1 in Singles & Dating

Then you realized that you could not have sex with that person would you still be interested. If not explain why, and if so explain why.

2007-05-26 15:45:08 · 2 answers · asked by Timah 2 in Singles & Dating

i hate fighting and people who talks behind peoples back.there is this guy who talks behind my back and found my profile on yahoo answers by searching my nickname through yahoo search engine. I told him not to look but he read all my questions. he gives no respect to anyone and stole my friend's Ipod. all my friend has lost resepct for him,he always talks behind my back and always annoys me by staring at me and smiling. should I fight him and kick his ***

2007-05-26 15:44:50 · 31 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Friends

Let's assume that your wife is an interested and motivated sexual partner, and you therefore have an active love life. How would having sex with her as often as you want affect your emotional state?
A) It would have little or no effect - sex seems unrelated to my emotions, or how I feel about the rest of my life.
B) It would have a positive effect - it would give me a greater sense of well-being and satisfaction with life.

2007-05-26 15:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by User 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my best friend knows my girlfriend since 1st grade but he has never shown any interests in her... until now... now that im going out with her, hes trying to flirt with her... i know it wont work because i know that me and my girlfriend are soulmates... but it still bugs me that hes trying to flirt with her... he goes to her house to play drums with her and he flirts with her in class... i told him to back off and he slowed down a bit... but he still does it... should i just let him conitnue until he finally figures out it wont work because me and her are soulmates or should i bring up the subject again? thx for your answers and i want more deep answers then just saying yes or no to the "bring up the subject again or not" part but more thought out answers with greater advice will be greatly apreciated!!! Thx everyone!

2007-05-26 15:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by Mario N 4 in Singles & Dating

My father has terminal cancer- we know he'll be passing soon. (He literally hasn't eaten anything in over a month- I don't know what's kept him hanging on this long.) I'm grown with a family of my own, but I still feel like a child when I think about losing my father. We've always been really close. I'm trying to hold it together for my daughter, but I'm really scared. How do you get through this? I think about having to go through his funeral service- and especially worry about how it's going to feel leaving the cemetery. These are things I never thought I'd worry about. I know people get back to their normal lives after losing someone, but sometimes I wonder how I'm going to do it.

2007-05-26 15:36:53 · 7 answers · asked by JustMyOpinion 5 in Family

My boyfriend is hitting 30 this year, just got a great job and is doing pretty well in life. I'm really proud of him. We've been dating for 3 years. I'm a few years younger and finishing grad school this year.

Today, at a family picnic his family was joking/playing around and teasing my boyfriend about when he was finally going to propose. It's pretty clear we will get married someday, but he seems to be taking his sweet time in asking. I'll admit, I'm a little antsy about it. I want it to happen, but I don't want to pressure him. So, I don't. But, today his family was doing enough of it for me. I just kept quiet, laughed and added a few quick little neutral comments about it. I surely wasn't going to admit to him, in front of his family, that 'mI waiting.

But, part of me is wondering if the increase in family support/pressure will have any effect of his final decision on when to ask me? We are both very traditional and so are our families.

2007-05-26 15:36:11 · 3 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Family

2007-05-26 15:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by davepetlick26 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do guy only want to date a girl so that they can, so as they call it score whats so important about that why can't they just date and keep it cool and then slowly (when they have a couple of months or even years) to Score. And for ur information guys when u say stuff like i'm going to be scoring more then just her or something like thats alot of girls feel like there a toy that u can come and play with when ever u want but alot DON'T like that so please tell me why u have to score?

2007-05-26 15:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lilsexyvampire! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 15:32:31 · 1 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I had some heart stuff done a couple years ago and I was certain I would die on the table. I got all my affairs in order. I named my beneficiaries on my life insurance. I made sure my heart was in tune with God. I put all my records in a box so my 16 and 18 yr old could find them. I gave them instructions on what to do if I died since they are fatherless (he is a deadbeat dad). I did not think I could count on my family to be honest in their financial affairs, so I had to be specific.
I made all the arrangements for my death. I am so greatful to be alive. I was scared my 16 and 18 yr old would be left on this earth to fend for themselves alone with no one.
Have you ever done anything like this? I am just wondering.

2007-05-26 15:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We still talk about the house we are trying to sell. We also have others we are dating. If there were a choice, I would be back with my Once In a Lifetime.

2007-05-26 15:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by BA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you jump in a crowd and then sorta.. carry you around.. sorta. you know what i mean? i think it's like.. something swimming? HAHA i don't know HELP

2007-05-26 15:26:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 15:25:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just getting more opinions on a question I asked earlier, with maybe a little more clarity on my part. I'm torn between two guys. Help.

Guy #1 - What I meant to say before... this guy has PERSONALITY. He's unique, if not a little weird. I've known him for two years and we have lots in common. We're so alike people think he's my brother. He doesn't know much about dating and isn't keen on a girlfriend, though he acted as my pseudo-boyfriend. Sometimes he hurts my feelings and doesn't understand. I'm content loving this man no matter what. + college degree - teaches music - I'm in the same degree track

Guy #2 - We only have a few things in common, but his background is similar to mine, very blue-collar. He is very nice and funny, but is much lower class than #1 and has zero ambition. Lives with his grandparents and has a factory job. I think my life with him would be a secure one, yet predictable and boring. He'd be easier to tie down than #1 and easier to settle.

2007-05-26 15:25:53 · 11 answers · asked by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 in Singles & Dating

she has been like this for a couple of years now the doctor is treating her for deprestion, but she still does it. How do i get her to stop? mum tells me to walk away and even if i do she follows.

2007-05-26 15:23:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for the past three years and we have kinown each other for almost eight years. Sincethe beginning there have been some great times but after the marriage the relationship has gone down hill fast. I have been tring to keep things going for the past few months but it is like I'm beating my head against the wall. Everyone around me keepsaying that I should hang in there but I am running out of patients. What should I do? Counseling has been suggested but she is refusing at this time. She states that she wants a break from the marriage. Once againwhat should I do?

2007-05-26 15:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Thank You = )

2007-05-26 15:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok I'm a 16/m and my younger sister, 12.5 just started wearing trainning bras. I was teasing her and giving her a hard time and she complained to my mom who warned me but I kept teasing her and she eventually started crying and my mom flipped. As a punishment I have to get a bra fitting and wear bras for a month. My mom says that it fits the crime and I will learn something from it.


How do i get out of it? She took away my tv, ipod, and cell phone and said I won't get them back until after the month and that if I'm bad it will be longer.
What other punishments could I suggest that aren't as bad as this?
The fitting is schedualed for wednesday morning so please hurry. I'm nervous about what will happen at the bra shop and stuff my mom won't tell me? Please help!

2007-05-26 15:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by John W 1 in Family

see I live with mygranmother(she doesn't look like it and shes not that old so i really don't care), and she is the one who takes care of me and does everything for me. Well I'm still in touch with my real mom and stuff(which i call her by her 1st name, Rolonda and i call my grandmother Mama). Well sometimes me and my mom fight, not big or terrible fights just normal everyday parent and child fights. And this time rolonda has decided if i talk back(I really don't consider what i do talking back, and I bet a lot of white parents wouldn't either but hey its stupid black culture), that she is gonna beat me up(well she didn't say that but thats what she meant, she a mean and violent person, she beat her son just because he answed the door to family, and he knew it was them, not some total stranger! so I definitly know thats what she meant! Shes nothing but a mean, witch! One time i put aleo in her other sons hair and she beat me with a extesion cord, in front of our great grandmother.

2007-05-26 15:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by leolabrit 2 in Family

I was diagnosed with depression years ago, started taking meds almost 5 years ago. I've been married just over 3 years, unhappy for most of them. I have no good reason to be unhappy, he treats me well, is a good daddy to our 2-year-old, works hard, and I know he loves me. I feel like I'm always looking for something better, though. Is that just because I'm a shallow, selfish b*tch? Or could it be that my depression leaves me feeling so empty, so hateful of myself that I'm hoping someone else will make me feel something? I know people will judge me, tell me I should suck it up and appreciate what I have. I'm miserable, though, which makes it really hard to appreciate anything. I feel like I'll always be in search of happiness, but I wouldn't know it if I found it. Is it even fair of me to stay with my husband if I'm always feeling this way? He's supportive of me, am I just using him for that support? I feel like such a terrible person!

2007-05-26 15:12:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce