Ok, my best friend knows my girlfriend since 1st grade but he has never shown any interests in her... until now... now that im going out with her, hes trying to flirt with her... i know it wont work because i know that me and my girlfriend are soulmates... but it still bugs me that hes trying to flirt with her... he goes to her house to play drums with her and he flirts with her in class... i told him to back off and he slowed down a bit... but he still does it... should i just let him conitnue until he finally figures out it wont work because me and her are soulmates or should i bring up the subject again? thx for your answers and i want more deep answers then just saying yes or no to the "bring up the subject again or not" part but more thought out answers with greater advice will be greatly apreciated!!! Thx everyone!
2007-05-26 15:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by Mario N 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look stop for a second and think .....if you say u and ur girlfriend are soulmates then start trusting that she wont let you down and if your friend keeps doing this than he really isnt your friend
talk to your girlfriend about it and see what she thinks maybe youre just seeing things love makes you go crazy believe me sometimes we see things that arent really there ..... GOOD LUCK
2007-05-26 15:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by redfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already brought this up with him don't bother again, tell your girlfriend how you feel and about the conversation that you had with your friend and then----tell her that you won't mention it again because you trust her and trust in your relationship. If you two are soul mates and treat each other with respect and love than no matter what he does it will never matter to her. When my first child was born I received flowers and gift certificates from many men and it wasn't a threat to my partner because he knew I loved him. Just recently I attended a family reunion without my husband and an ex boyfriend that I was with for over a year and a half was there and it kind of bugged him while I was gone (he was sick and couldn't go) but once I came home and said yeah he was there and wow am I lucky to have you he was fine.
Trust and respect-I hope this helps you.
2007-05-26 15:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a good friend he would know that it's a big no-no to flirt with your friends boyfriend/girlfriend.
2016-04-01 10:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all have you talked to your girlfriend about it and told her how you feel about it? I would tell her to let him know she isnt interested in him.. she needs to tell him because then maybe he will realize he dosnt have a chance. With you telling him he can't flirt makes him feel like he could possibly be a threat on the relationship. And as for why he is flirting with her now that ur dating her is maybe he never thought of her as a gf and now that he see's her as ur gf he likes the attenion ur getting or whatever.. he probably sees a different side of her. Well I hope things work out with all of u..
2007-05-26 15:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by manta.panda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your girlfriend why she is playing drums with your mate and not you?? Your girlfriend will be loving all the attention!
Either he is jelous and wants what you have or he is doing it to get your attention because he feels left out... Either way this is no way for him to be treating his best friend.
Set him up withsomeone else. Tell him he is coming across as a try hard and to get his own girlfriend and his own life.
2007-05-26 15:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by emo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this situation is often a hard one, it happened to me once before, my best friend started flirting with my bf, but then he started flirting back!
I would certainly bring up the subject again, and ask your gf if she realises what is happening. if she just ignores him, i think he will realise nothing will become out of it.. but i still think you should bring it up with both of them..
it also depends on what you think is flirting. if it is major, theres a problem, but if its just a couple of comments now and then, id let it go, but if it became more i would have a talk to them about it 'again'.
another thing is your friend may be jealous. he might have liked your gf but just not told you, so he may be upset a little bit. you should ask him about that too.
ok, hope this helps!!
2007-05-26 15:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by teee_tee11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not acting like your best friend. He is acting lie a jerk. Tell him you can't stay friends with him if he shows so little respect for your friendship. Then dump him if he continues. Sounds like he is jealous of you. Find another best friend, one who likes you and respects you and your feelings.
2007-05-26 15:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like your best friend
2007-05-26 15:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋