okay, he is not the greatest looking, but everyone knows it, he has a HUGE crush on me. he is even writing a book, and he will only let me edit it, and this book is really long!!!! I really dont know what to do, im really flattered but all of my friends say he is a complete nerd!! please help me!!!!
2007-05-26 10:27:43 · 22 answers · asked by StuffitTuff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well at least he sounds more interesting than your fiends.
2007-05-26 10:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only saying that you have to be the one to edit his book so you'll have to interact with him.
Forget what your friends say if all they're saying is that he's a nerd. If they say that they think he won't treat you well, that's a different story... but otherwise, who cares if he's unpopular or what anyone else thinks?
If you think you might like him if you got to know him, spend some time with him. If you're just simply not interested, tell him that and, more importantly, stop giving him attention. (He won't believe you when you say you're not interested if you keep giving him attention.)
2007-05-26 17:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Joy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your in "like" or "love" who cares what others say. Get to know him more as a person from your point of view and make the choice for yourself. What counts is on the inside.
2007-05-26 17:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulxsoulx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, What does your heart tell you ? Other people can never tell someone else what is right. Many well to do people were called nerds ! Perhaps your friends are jelous.Have you asked Jesus in prayer ?
2007-05-26 17:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't give into peer pressure. If people only went out with people because they look good, than the population would go WAY down. And just because he doesn't look good to some people, doesn't mean he looks bad to all people. you should ask yourself, "do I like him," Give him a chance, and if you get to like him, than mabey you should try it. Who cares what your friends think, you should do what you think is the right thing to do.
2007-05-26 17:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good haert. It is very difficult and can become awkward if you stay friends. Decide how much he means to you and think about what to do. guys feel really bad when rejected but its all up to you to handle it.
Good luck
2007-05-26 17:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Superman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with dating a nerd..he might even be the man of your dreams. give it a try and if you don't like him for what he has beneath the surface level then stop dating. you don't have to rush into anything serious.
2007-05-26 17:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by moonlodestar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first off do what u want to do dont listen to ur firends... my bf isnt completly hott and my friends told me that. i could get way hotter but the thing is he was the nicest guy. he does everything with me and would sings to me... i dont really care if he was hott enough for my friends as long as hes hott for me but its the way i feel with him... i been with him for 2 years and its been amazing i love it.. my friends stick with me and they now say that he treats me good and they know im happy and they dont really care if hes hott or not anymore. it all depends on what u wanna do do u like him? if yes then just hang out with him if u arent sure then just hang out and see what hes like. if u dont like him dont le him on to u just be nice to him... Just dont listen to ur friends do what u want
2007-05-26 17:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Noelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then you cant care about what other people think. it doesnt matter if they think hes a nerd... if you like him and you dont do anything then you will regret it. if you dont like him then tell him but be nice about it.
2007-05-26 17:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by sfbkjdsfbjkebf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off... looks arent everything!! and screw what your friends think!!! if YOU want to edit the book or if you like him then go for it... if YOU dont like him and you dont want to do it then just tell him you dont have time!!
2007-05-26 17:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kristen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whta you should do depends if you have any feelings for him, if you don't then just make sure you only remain friends, and about the book its not your responsibilty to edit it
2007-05-26 17:31:02 · answer #11 · answered by Dennis D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋