I have a tendency to get drunk and sleep around. I can't have sex sober...I don't know why. The guys I sleep with are people I crush on anyway. I don't do it frequently, but I have done it enough. I don't want people in the town to think I'm promiscious, I do it discreetly (and I don't act trashy when I'm drinking). Is it bad to do this as a 23 year old mother? Am I a slut?
2007-05-26 18:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your dependency was built from your early teenage years, so the actions you take now are much more transparent to where it's not seen as morally wrong. I believe that you've done it so many times you're used to it by now. You see no guilt in indulging to do so.
Not only is it wrong, but you also allow others to take complete advange of you whether you allow them to or not. Also if you can't take your own life seriously why should anyone take you seriously now or in the near future? Yes, there's that common saying, "It's just sex." That's completely foolish. Would a woman still have said that if they were raped? You should be aware of what date rape is, but in this case you shouldn't be blaming anyone. You seriously need to fix this habit of submitting yourself.
2007-05-26 19:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the reason you cant have sex sober is because you know what you're doing is wrong and being drunk somehow offers you an excuse for what you do. Im assuming you're single. Maybe you're just lonely.
You have a child, but you're lonely. So you have sex with guys you're kinda crushing on. And you're always drunk because you cant deal with the reality of it. or dont want to.
Please try.
And may God bless you.
2007-05-26 19:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Melonball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 05:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by fechter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you live in a small town, they already know, your NOT fooling anyone.
And yes, your acting trampy, and not setting morals for your children.
Seeing mommy drunk again, how nice. and by the way, whos' this guy?
2007-05-26 18:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be many people that will tell you that you are being a s.l.u.t. however, you have needs and I say that if you are comfortable with this then continue and to hell with those that want to judge you.
2007-05-26 21:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? I'm just kidding....you are not a bad person for doing this.
2007-05-26 18:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-05-26 18:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋