saying let's talk? is it a specific issue that is bothering you that you want to address or several? or here is another one, when we ask what's wrong why you say "nothing" when there is actually something that is bothering you?
2007-05-26 18:14:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhhhh..why, why why!..don't make it too complicated plz. then you say men don't have a clue..with all this confusing stuff no wonder we are lost.
2007-05-26 18:36:09 · update #1
when it gets to the point where a woman has to say "let's talk" it's about several issues. probably ones that she has already mentioned that you failed to comply with. if it was just one specific thing, she'd just casually bring it up in a conversation. as far as saying "nothing" when you ask what's wrong, it's because we want to know that you really care what's wrong, and you're not just asking to ask. so we wait for you to keep pestering us about it, so we can open up and lay it on you. make any sense?
2007-05-26 18:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by MiLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man what cave have you been living in by saying leets talk that means she has something to say so shut up and listen and pay attention take notes if you have to she might ask questions after ya'll talk. With the nothing situation women like to be left alone about somethings and other times she wants you to keeps asking whats wrong to see if you really care, you'll have to learn for yourself when the time is right.
2007-05-27 01:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what's bothering us. The things that you men do jusy gets on our nerves. And as far as let's talk means that we are about to cut you lose, but before we do you need to hear some things. Never get on a woman's bad side and whether a woman right or wrong we always winthe fight and the last word.
2007-05-27 01:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be both really. and when we say nothing then it may be nothing but if we still act like something then it's probably still being thought about, we aren't ready to talk about it yet, it's not the time or place to talk about what we are thinking about, or we've already talked about it with you and you didn't pay attention then so maybe you won't pay attention now, or we don't want to bother you with it b/c it has nothing to do with you and you may have enough on your plate. it really depends on the girl and the situation.
2007-05-27 01:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when women say lets talk it could mean that they just want to sit down and know how you are your what youve been doing. or in a bad way a girl could be saying that, to give you an easy let down or breaking up. if you have a trusty girl you might just want to tell her how you feel, or if something is bothering you.
2007-05-27 09:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not quite get what you mean.
If you're in a relationship and your girl calls you on the phone and says "We need to talk" or " I want to talk to you" usually it means something is wrong.
However, if you are just asking what women want to talk about when they are seeking a regular conversation, I'd say depends on the woman.
Asking questions usually helps in finding out what's going on.
2007-05-27 01:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by *Lovely* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because a woman doesn't want you to say what's wrong with you....she wants you to be like honey I can tell somethings bothering you...let's talk about it......and when we say let's talk...it could be just one issue or a few depends on what's going on within the relationship.......or when she says nothing...that may be precisely what we mean...nothin
2007-05-27 01:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mama C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I say "Let's talk" it's usually about one specific thing that's important at the moment. And if we say "Nothing" when there really is something wrong we either don't want to talk about it or we want to see if you will try to get us talk about it. We are confusing, yes.
That sucks for you, doesn't it? lol
2007-05-27 01:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by midwester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women say "nothing" because we want to know whether you care enough to get through the walls we built up and find out what the problem is. so if a girl tells you nothing. grab her [gently] look her straight into her eyes and ask her again. so she can know that you really do care.
2007-05-27 01:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sheree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it usually means that when we dont want to talk it could mean that we dont actually trust and believe that you could actually solve the problem so whats the point, we are tired of arguing and if you dont get the point at that moment then its better to be silent, find out for yourself what need to be done.
2007-05-27 01:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋