Ok ive gone out with this guy named brandon and we dated for like a year but he broke up with me for a stuck up ***** and he came back to me and said he was sorry for everything and then he asked me out what should i do???
2007-05-26 18:18:52 · 12 answers · asked by Michele 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't go back with him. he might be using you as a 'doormat'- when he broke up with his new gf, he might've needed a 'backup' and he chose you.
you shouldn't go back with him, no matter what he says.
2007-05-26 18:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by sushifureak 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this sort of thing happen to me, and my advice is: dont take him for his words! Find out what truly is going on without HIS input. See if you can find out if he truly is not with that other woman. Then find out why they are split. Maybe she could not tolerate HIM!
Then bide your time, do not jump head first into the mess again. If he truly wants YOU, then he will be patient. If you jump at him right away, this tells his brain that you are a "just waiting to be used by him" type of person. I know, I got hooked that way and used many many years!
It is a test to find out if you are a sucker.
It is true, he COULD be honest about his feelings, but why are you SECOND in his list? Why is he returning? He's feeling lonely, doesnt like rejection and wanting "some" maybe?
Keep your wits about you, do some soul searching and dont let "hormones" rule your head...and you will make the right decision.
Good luck!
2007-05-27 01:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by None Compare 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he would walk away from you once he would do it twice. Try to remember the way you felt when he left you the first time, how long it took you to get over him (if you ever got over him). If you think he is worth possible feeling that way again then go for it. But remember this the best way to get back at a man that hurt you is to never give him the chance to do it again
2007-05-27 01:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest you do not take him back.
Think about it this way, if he felt the urge to go finding someone else, there was something wrong with the relationship he didnt feel could be fixed. What made the relationship worth saving now?
2007-05-27 01:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer this one, if you start going back out with him, and another stuck up comes along, is he gonna dump you again...etc.
2007-05-27 01:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can always gimme him a chance....humans make mistakes, even angels do!!! a person who forgives is greater than any other person....n look that the good side, he admits his mistake n is feeling bad about it so he apologized.....
but if that happens again n that be a sin n then u can just say no
!!!
2007-05-27 01:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by DevilishAngel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it serious and think before you do anything.first think if you really want him in your life becuse sometimes we do things out of lonliness not exactly like or love be sure its not the case for you and if it is just say one word to him and end of any headache.(NO)
2007-05-27 01:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what if he does it again to you. how can you really trust him? Do you still have strong feelings for him? go with your first instinct
2007-05-27 01:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by aphrodite_urgod 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't bother with him. If he did it once he'll do it again down the road with another *****.
2007-05-27 01:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by ßỰŦŤΣЯ§! Guess who's back...for now! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no.trusting him again would mean that you're letting yourself be hurt by the same guy over and over and over again..:D
2007-05-27 01:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by pixiedust_castle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋