have you ever notice that whenever you are arguing with a girl and u say drop it. They actually get more mad and can never drop a subject until they have the final word.
2007-05-26 18:24:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wha did you said? Drop it? Are you telling me to SHUT UP?
Who do you think you are......
Ja,Ja!
2007-05-26 20:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the answer, I dont argue! Honest! I may feel like it, but I keep my mouth shut. Rare maybe? Could be!
Truly, from what I have learned over the years, I think women in general just want to be acknowledged as having opinions and desires. It is when they are not being listened to in the first place, that they get hostile. They want to know you care about them and what they want. It is a matter of how you handle the first part of the "discussion". Handle it well by focussing on what she is saying, respond by repeating back to her what she said to make SURE that is what she MEANS and poof! No argueing involved...try it!
2007-05-27 01:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by None Compare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually hate arguing, although I am good at it. I always say drop it, or change the subject.
2007-05-27 01:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guilty of continuing to nag or argue after the words "drop it" have been put into play. It just pisses me off to hear those words and makes me want to prove my point even more so.
2007-05-27 01:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~Malarie~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women enjoy arguing, that's an unfair stereotype. Maybe she just wanted to resolve the issue.
I used to date a guy who hated fighting so much he would never discuss anything important with me, and nothing ever got resolved. As you can probably guesss, it didn't work out.
2007-05-27 01:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate arguing, I have an aversion to any kind of confrontation. It's a character flaw that makes me mad at myself often. It makes me seem laid-back, but inside I'm seething. I realize that someday I will probably explode, but for now I will just let things slide.
2007-05-27 01:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz u guys dont speak final word to them until the final word. as i girl myself, i hate arguing. but i do, as a matter of fact, a lot. cuz somtimes we jus hav to be sure of somthing and how do we know ur not lying? somtimes u might think we're trying to argue but we're not. and when u say drop it they get mad cuz means
1 u trying to hide somthin?
2 u don care about it
3 gal may feel u meaning shes getting annoying and thas bad thing to say
2007-05-27 01:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by terrisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love arguing.. my bf tends to listen to me when I agrue with him, than me just telling him. Plus, it's a turn on to fight with a guy.. for me anyway. But would you actually listen to a girl if she wasn't arguing with you in the first place..probably not!!. Plus it makes you men mad when we get the last word..so that's why we do it..lol
2007-05-27 01:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to argue because I like to win. Then I like to make them remember that I won. That is why I love to argue.
2007-05-27 01:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by JenC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's better to just get it over with, rather than letting in the head all the time and it actually affects everything until everything is let out.
2007-05-27 01:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy one this, just say "i know you will want the final word and i just cant be bothered to spend anymore time on this as i am right, so go on you have 15 seconds, say it then i'm off out".
lways works, get them more made.
Basics is they WANT to be right, then when you give up it means they know you wont be listening... the above works well as you are telling them you even know how they work.
they hate that...
2007-05-27 01:39:26 · answer #11 · answered by birthroleplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋