Sometimes I borrow 20's out of my fiances wallet, and lately I use his credit card a lot. I think I might have over done it though because today went shopping with my friends and I used his credit card to buy a Coach handbag for $548, Chanel Allure fragrance for $95 and I paid for lunch for all my friends at Cheesecake Factory. The total cost of my day came to over $800.
I think I might have over done it spending that much and my boyfriend and I are sort of on a budget right now because we are saving up for our wedding and for a new car. Do you think he will be mad when he gets the bill? What should I do?
2007-05-26 20:54:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To all you stupid b!tches who are telling me it's stealing ... well, um, he IS my fiance and even though I never asked to use his credit card, I don't think it makes me a "stealer". OMG, doesn't anyone have sympathy anymore?
2007-05-26 21:04:41 · update #1
i would first like to take a moment to point at laquiesha fuckaine or whatever and laugh at her.
ok, now. it really depends on whether he's poor or not. oh, wait, he is.
well, if that was me in that position, i'd ask him first, but hey, telling him would be really cool too. i mean, otherwise not only will you be left without money for your wedding, but also without a groom.
you really oughta consider being a better fiancee.
2007-05-26 21:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by its just me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't believe in right and wrong then I guess it is alright. However, if you think stealing is a punishable sin/crime, then you should probably be in jail where you'd have plenty of time to think seriously about what you've done and repent. Really, I'm not judging you...just kind of surprised because what you are doing is really taking advantage of someone who cares for you. That's selfish and thoughtless. You need to tell the truth and then figure out why you are buying so many things that you can't afford. Are you shopping away sadness or regret from the past or for some reason sabotaging your relationship...I wonder.
2007-05-26 21:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Angel33 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This poster needs some serious help. First she posts that she's a tutor for a friends 16 year old child and has engage in a sexual relationship. She's asked questions which are racists and now this. Either she's completely stupid and needs to grow up or she just like playing with you all. What should you do? Grow Up you behavior is irresponsible and frankly any guy who ends up with you I feel sorry for.
2007-05-28 18:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Orion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naturally, spending $548 for that Coach handbag was justifiable.
It is ok so long as you are putting out in bed, that way he'll overlook the fact you are a thieving disgusting skank for a while.
2007-05-27 11:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should own up to your boyfriend BEFORE he finds out for himself when the bill comes. Be apologetic, and promise you won't do it again. And perhaps explain why you spent that much that day... perhaps you were feeling down? or saw things you really loved? Any chance of returning and getting a refund for some of those things like the Coach handbag?
2007-05-26 20:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes that was VERY wrong, and in the case of his credit card illegal. You sound like a user, I hope he dumps you for a less materialistic girl.
edit - Fiance is NOT a legal standing. It is stealing by LAW. You are NOT a legal signer on his credit card. He could take you to court and win.
2007-05-26 21:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I would flip out, especially on a budget! Are you TRYING to get him to break up with you and drag you to court, because that what most of the guys I know would do!?
Maybe PAY HIM BACK the money, and swear never to do it again, and if he has any sense, he'll lock up his cash and credit cards.
Other than that, your relationship is DOOMED if you bankrupt the poor guy!
2007-05-26 21:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Vincent 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Darling, you've already done it! When he finds out, as he will, then you will know whether he really loves you, that's for sure! He is going to expect that you'll do that when you're married, and that might just decide WHETHER you get married.
You have started your karma by putting out the 'cause'. Now you'll just have to wait for the 'effect'.
I wish you luck.
2007-05-26 21:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its wrong, you are using his card without his permission, fiancee or not what you are doing right now is putting him in the whole and creating alot of debt which will be on his credit report if you cant pay for it, he has every right to be angry at you because of the budget already in place for the wedding at the rate youre going with spending there may not be a wedding.....
2007-05-27 15:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I were him, I would be mad. Using his credit card is OK, but not telling him is not a very good thing. I think you should tell him before he gets the bill.
2007-05-26 21:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋