I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years he is a really nice guy that looks after me and does everything for me , I live by myself in another country and I dont have anyone here just him. I went back to my country for holidays and I met another guy , I was with him for 3 weeks , I saw him every day ...everything was perfect!!! I came back to the country where I've been living for the last 7 years and the relationship with my boyfriend is not the same , I've been thinking so much in the other guy , talking everyday on the ph, chating etc...he wants to come here to live with me and he is trying tO do the papers to get the visa etc...I dont know what to do because with my boyfriend I have everything...with the other guy ...Im not sure I dont even know him properly I dont know if he is real or just want to come here and he thinks im gona help him to stay here...but I feel so much for this new guy that is scary ...I dont think I love my boyfriend ...I dont know what to do ?????
2007-05-26 23:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by chiqui 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't love your boyfriend, no matter how nice he is to you, you have to be honest and tell him. This other guy is exciting and new but he's really just a distraction from your real problem.
2007-05-27 00:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to forget about this new guy. You don't know him that well and are probably not being realistic about who he is.
Second, you have to evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend. And be completely honest with yourself. Are you happy with him and do you see yourself being with him the rest of your life? If he's not the one for you, and you know it for certain, you should break it off and move on. But do not start something with another guy first.
I wonder too, why have you been in that country for seven years and still don't know anyone besides your boyfriend? Don't you get out and meet people? And why the hell is this guy you've known less than a month trying to move to another country? Obviously he's not doing it for you.
2007-05-27 08:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stick to your old friend with whom you have an assured , understanding ,comfortable and emotional relationship. When you are not sure of the new guy,whom you do not trust completely yet, there is no meaning in getting yourself involved with him and getting further confused.Get rid of your newfound infatuation.Resolve yourself to the assured relationship and your confusion will dissolve by itself.
2007-05-27 07:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by vishavas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him you've met someone new . No fair for him to continue to be true to you , when you aren't to him . He deserves the chance to find someone else also .
2007-05-27 07:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by opinionated 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to stop cheating cause thats what you are doing
break it off with the boyfriend before you start up with another
you are not being fair to him (the boyfriend
2007-05-27 07:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋