I wonder why...(absolutely not for minors!)?

Question

Why do boys like sex? And girls too? I mean, all u do is body movements and physical motions! Sure u have a...thing... in ya girls,but so wat? And boys, wats so good about puttin yo...thing...in a girl? Its an unusual question,I know,but I'm a virgin girl wondering this and also scared of this...

Answer 1

because it feels really good!!!

Answer 2

Sex with the right person, for the right reasons and at the right time can be a beautiful thing, an expression of love, trust and closeness.
Sex for the wrong reasons, with the wrong person, or at the wrong time can be dirty, painful, and feel degrading.
Sometimes sex with the one you love, can still be the wrong thing, if its done for the wrong reasons, or one isn't ready, or there are other things that should have been made right first.
But sex, when its good, can light you up from within, like you have the whole universe within you just waiting to burst through, and when it does, it leaves you feeling replete, satisfied, full. That, my girl, is called an orgasm. And for some, that is the "Holy Grail" of sex. That is why we keep doing it.

Answer 3

Sex is about chemical responses in the brain. It is the way in which our brain rewards us for things that gives us the pleasure that is derived from sex.

When you are able to experience the full flight of lust for someone and have them return it with equal ardour. You will understand what sex really mean. Sex isn't about a man putting his organ into a woman. It is about emotion and lust and feelings.

Please stay a virgin until you know that you are ready for this don't be pressured into having sex. You will know when you are ready. You will stop being scared and frightened by sex

It is not something that you play with. It is something that you must experience to understand. You must know what your body does when it is excited and be able to teach your partner what gives you the greatest pleasure.

A mans greatest drive is to reproduce. A woman's greatest drive is to find a mate that can provide for her offspring. These drives are very hard to ignore.

Answer 4

deep down inside we are still just animals and our mission is to populate the planet... well at least this is what i have figured out so far.

sex with a partner u really care about is intimate because u open yourself to them completely and hold nothing back. u learn how your partners body reacts to stimulation and its just as much fun exciting them mentally as it is exciting them physically. there is something very liberating about having sex honestly and passionately with someone who is as open to u and feels the same way, but at the end of the day the point of sex is to reproduce.

don't rush into something u are not sure about, your virginity is something u can only give to 1 person, try make your 1st time special, something to remember even if u don't stay with the guy.. it should always b something u never regret!

with fun tho comes responsibility and u should always practice safe sex, from your 1st time till your last. enjoy yourself, your youth and your virginity... there is a time for everything, don't rush :)

Answer 5

well I'm a virgin too but I'm guessing I'm slightly older than u (in my 20s) so this is from me and my non-virgin girlfriends

it becomes a desire, u become increasingly curious of how it feels like, to put it to u straight yeah its not all that its hyped up to be, but if done right or well it feels damn good!! because u want that orgasmic feeling.

what our guy friends has told us is that it just feels good to be inside a women, its hot, moist, tight and soft. and that wrapped around a mans thing feels like a haven.

for the female its like putting something inside that can reach those pleasure zones. so why not use a dildo u may ask: it just not the same cause its not human u want to relate/connect with someone that feels the same pleasure u do

Answer 6

First of all sweety,
SEX is not just motions, it should have to have EMOTIONS
Sex is nothing to be scared about ,its something beautiful you will discover on ur own time.
Sex should be with someone you really care about and not just a fling.
Sex is somethin that frees your mind of troubles and makes you rediscover all of what you thought were normal feelings.
BY FAR SEX IS THE MOST MIND BLOWING EVEN ANYONE COULD EVER EXPERIENCE.

Answer 7

Having sex with the right person is an awesome experience that cannot be adequately put into words. It is not just something physical, but also mental. Wait until you meet someone that really takes your breath away. I know that waiting can be hard, but when you meet someone that you really want to be with it'll be worth the wait.

Answer 8

Its not about what you have inside you, sex is a feel good thing. Men and women like sex because it feels good. Your a virgin so you wouldn't know about the feeling and honestly I can't explain the feeling but it is liked so much because it feels really good ( if its getting done right)

Answer 9

Good sex is better than anything I can think of. But it's best when in love and two bodies unite. It then becomes a soul tie.

Answer 10

First of all, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin and wondering this and feeling scared at the same time. :)

To answer your question, because it feels good. But I would strongly encourage you to wait until you are married to find out. It's so much better and you will save yourself a TON of heartache in the long run.

Answer 11

This is one bit of knowledge that can't be conveyed with words. There is physical pleasure, emotional connection, and pure biological drives, all working together.

When you're ready, you'll understand. Until then just accept it as a mystery of life.