Why am I such a nerd? I wanna be cool too?

Question

How do I be cool?

hahah I'm on a soccer team!!

Answer 1

don't be silly, i'm very sure your a great person and very cool too, there is no real way to be cool apart from being yourself, you cool the way you are never change it just because some immature person decides to be an asshole, be who you are, more people will love you for being who you are than they will if you go around wearing a mask honey, why would you even think your a nerd? because what some asshole decides he's gonna try act "cool" and you call you a nerd? that's not cool, that's immaturity, just think about it when your coming back with all the grades and that slums wound up in a slammer,

it's cool to be who you are, you not a nerd honey, your you don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise :)

hope you feel better honey *huggles!* :)

Answer 2

Cool ain't a look, ain't a way of talking, ain't fasion, ain't money. You can be cool without all of those things. Cool people want to make the world a better happier place, and got out of their way to make it happen. WIth the little things and people you come in contact with each day. Then once you're like that, what you say, how you look, how you dress, and how much you make won't matter. You will feel cool, and when you feel cool other people can recognize it. And you will be cool. Or you could just need to get laid.

Answer 3

Be yourself. Based your terminology, ("nerd"), I'm guessing you're not yet in college or just haven't been around a more mature crowd. With that in mind, keep in mind too that the opposite of nerds ("jocks") tend to not be as goal-oriented, leaving them to mere parties and careers behind cash registers. All my best friends are nerds, and I consider myself a nerd. We're all in middle-to-upper management levels for universities, IT companies, non-profit agencies, publications, law firms, or are pursuing graduate degrees. I'd much rather be a nerd than "cool" in high school. You eventually grow up, and nerds retain their goal-oriented mentalities while the "cool" kids can only hope to manage the local Applebee's. Good luck!

Answer 4

Cool is such a relative term. You have chosen to become who you are or because you are copying one of your parent.
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Answer 5

First of all, I think nerds are hott! lol. Secondly, being cool is not as important as having good friends who care about you. You are great just the way you are, you don't need to change yourself just because the "cool" people don't accept nerds. Who said they make the rules anyway?? Often those "cool" people are really self conceited and insecure. Learn to like yourself, cuz like I said, nerds are hott! ;)

Answer 6

Don't worry about it. I'm called geeky because I get good grades. I have the best of friends and don't care that I'm labeled as a "geek". Real friends are better than fake "cool" friends.

Answer 7

What's wrong with you?..Nerds are not bad..people call you names like that and you let them do that..that's why they insist of calling you that name..if you're really smart,you won't let anyone call you that..you'd know how to deal with it..you can be cool on whatever wa you want to!..you can do it!..^^.,Good Luck!.,^^.,

Answer 8

Fuggetaboutit. Cool aint all it's cut out to be.

Answer 9

Don't be so hard on yourself. You are not a nerd. I'm sure your a very nice person. :)

Answer 10

A cool person, in my definition, is someone who is your friend, is nice to everyone, has a good nature, understands and listens to people and would not think of themselves as "cool."

This is someone you could look up to.