I keep on thinking of her. I am happy when I am with her. When I am away from her, I am really sad. We've been together for 6 months already. I am 22 and she's 21. I miss her. When I am with her, I always hold her hand, or hold her close to me and kiss her. Is this love? When you are in love, how did you feel?
2007-05-29 11:04:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are in lust. When you are in love, you will know. There will be no doubt in your mind and you will not have to ask.
2007-05-29 11:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, can you, right now, define love? I mean it, can you come up with a definition without bothering Mr. Websters book? What is love? Is it a feeling? Is it an Action? Does it need to be reciprocated or can it be by yourself? If you can't define it, then how would you know if you are in it? Now, go to Websters dictionary, look up the definition, it's classification, and morph it into your own words. If she feels this personal definition of yours is on the money, you have a good chance for happiness, if she thinks it's ridiculous, then don't feel bad, just ask her what needs to be changed. This kind of communication is extremely positive and wise!
2007-05-29 20:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like infatuation or lust and its still new and exciting. Like the others say when your in love you will wake up in the morning and say what can I do to make her day better, you will want to put her needs and wants in front of hers, just as you would when you have children. True love is putting the best interest of the others first and putting yourself second.
Be patient. Give it more time its still new. You'll know after more time if its love.
2007-05-29 18:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bud, you're only experiencing lust. Love will hit you in the heart, soul and gut when you're pushin' 30. Enjoy your 20's..too young to be thinking of love and a serious relationship. Oh, and save sex for marriage...you'll both respect each other so much more!
And why do you feel the need to ask each question five times consecutively? They fall under Friends or Singles and Dating..period. hmmmm...immaturity? insecurities?
2007-05-29 18:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like lust.
Love is when you know that you can put another persons needs in front of yours for the rest of your life. That their wellbeing is just as important - if not more so - than yours.
6 months is enough time to like a person, and feel connected with them... but (in my opinion) it's not enough time to base a lifes decision on.
Enjoy the relationship, watch it grow - respect her.
Good luck.
2007-05-29 18:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know! its really hard to tell someone. Cause its always different for other people! It will come easy to you like wow i can see myself spending the rest of my life with this girl! or i don't want to not have this person in my life! Thats how i felt about my husband when we were dating! Also ask her what she wants out of your relationship to see the steps you are able to take with the Whole love thing! its a big step!!!
2007-05-29 18:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by perfectdudit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good quetion. love is just a second hand emotion. so go outside of the box and think of more logical reasons you admire or care for this person and not focus so much on love. ..whatever that is. otherwise, just take a chance that this is love and call it, define it as you may.
fatuation, addiction to love and lust are some things that are often mistaken for love. beware,
2007-05-29 18:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not just a feeling we get when we are with someone or away from them. Love is a committment to a person, with the promise you will always live with their best interest at heart.
2007-05-29 18:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good start. Do you imagine yourself living with her and having children with her? Do you picture yourselves growing old together? Do her feelings come before your own? Is your goal in life to make her happy? Can you imagine your life without her?
2007-05-29 18:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to learn more about yourself and your emotions. The feeling of being "in love" varies in specifics from person to person, and with more self-understanding you will be able to figure out what "love" means to you personally. Self-knowledge comes with experience - don't be afraid to go out and experience what life has to offer.
2007-05-29 18:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what. If you feel the same after a couple of years, give or take, then you might have found the one for you.
Good luck.
2007-05-29 18:11:39 · answer #11 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋