Ladies: Define what makes a guy a "loser"?

Question

What are some characteristics of a guy that you would consider him to be a loser or not dating material?

Wow thanks for the big response! This will help know what not to do! Hehehe, thanks bye :)

Answer 1

no job, abusive, doesn't take care of his kids, irresponsible, drug user, alcoholic, no car, lies, cheats, steals, acts arrogant, has no home, can't pay his bills, is a mooch, fights in public and thinks its cool, rude to wait staff, rude to people in general, can't get cleaned up for important occasion's such as graduation, weddings, thinks it's fine to go out dressed like a slob, thinks he's slick when he is such a dork, geez, I could go on and on, I keep editing because I think of more to say....I'm trying to think of all the quality's my 2 brother in law's possess....

Answer 2

Confidence is a biggy. Knowing how to treat a woman - in bed and out. Non-judgemental, playful, uninhibited, a willingness to try out new things. Muscles, a smile that says 'I am mentally undressing you!' LOL Muscly arms and thighs. Hair on his genital area. (Hair shaved off = BIG turn off!!) Muscles! LOL When a guy loves you and wants you - that's sexy. On a side note - Why are some men so obsessed with women wanting their money? I couldn't give a flying f*** about a mans earning power or what he has in the bank! I can make my own money. I don't want to leech off some guy! Money has NOTHING to do with sexiness, or wanting a relationship with a guy full stop. I think these men have serious issues and won't ever be happy until they get them sorted out!

Answer 3

I don't like a guy who is unemployed. A strong work ethic is important to me. I don't care about money, but I can't stand lazy people like that.

He can't be a drug addict! BIG no no.

I also don't like a guy who has bad hygiene. It is gross and shows me he doesn't respect or take care of himself.

I would never date a guy who considers himself a player. That cocky attitude is a huge turn off, and I would always think he was cheating...even though he would probably only be a wannabe anyway.

I wouldn't date a guy who lives w/ his parents still. That really makes me think he is a loser. (Situations depend though)

Let me think...oh, I wouldn't date a guy who disrespected me or my family & friends. Respect is extremely important to me.

The guy can't be selfish either. He would have to put me first sometimes.

There are plenty of things that a guy can be or do for me to consider him a loser or undateable. I have my standards and I won't lower them because I don't ask for much anyway. But, yeah any guy w/ the qualities I mentioned could never have me.

Answer 4

If he has bad breath, high-water pants on, socks and sandals. If he is touchy-feely from the start, unable to carry a conversation in a paper bag, doesn't work or lives with mommy, dump him. Don't date a drinker, a hard-drug user, or a liar. If he can't tell you where he has been for the last 6 hours, get away fast. Don't stop to collect the $200, just get the heck away from him.

Answer 5

Well if he doesn't have a job he is without a doubt a loser!!! Being a loser consist of many things like if he cheats, lies, abuses you in anyway, doesn't care about his future or have any plans for the future, and being a selffish self absorbed nasty person.. That pretty much covers it??

Answer 6

I hate a guy with no drive, meaning he doesn't do anything. He must have a job or be in school or contribute at least something to the world. I also hate a man without a sense of personality, the way he presents himself and how he dresses should reflect who he is.

Answer 7

Well, I have a loser that I know in my mind and the thought of him disgusts me. Here are some characteristics that he has

-Hasn't even graduated high school and not planning to go to college
- Will not better himself therefore has no bright future. Who would WANT a future with someone that doesn't have one?
-Smokes
-Wastes his money
-Does drugs...wastes even more money on that.
-Drinks too much.
-Works at Burger King
-Can barely make ends meet
-Has set no standards for himself
-Is a man whore
-Will not get common sense things like car insurance, health insurance, ect.


Try not to be like that!
For yourself, and for the future that you might have with someone.

Answer 8

Theres quite a few.

a cheater, liar, has no job, lives at home when he is grown enough to have his own place., does drugs, no car, has kids and does not take care of them, a guy who brags about thigs he does not have or just tries too hard to make himself look good.

Answer 9

Easy question Loser material includes,but is not limited to--
1.lives with parents(unless he is taking care of his elderly parents)
2.bad hygiene
3.arrogant and cocky attitude
4.says women are lucky to have him
5.abusive men
6.controlling men
7.No job---doesn't work,doesn't want to
8.dresses like crap all the time
9.shouts insults at people in public places

Answer 10

-A bad attitude..
-No job (and not trying to get one)
-Not ambitious
-Lives with his parents and doesn't have a good excuse
-Under 25 and divorced
-Not finished highschool
-does drugs or drinks too much
-disrespectful
-my parents absolutely *hate* him
-bar star
-big ego.. thinks he's gods gift to women.. *rolleyes*

Also if he tries to analyze me by the way I act around him.. or says something along the lines of, "You looked truly genuinely happy when you saw me." Or, "I can tell there's something more to you.." Or "I can read people well.. you...." I laugh at him and walk away.