i've been with this girl for two years and i love her more that she can ever know. a year ago theres was nothing no one could tell meh about us. but know things hav e changed we have up & downs all the time, we don't call each other, and when we are togather we are fighting. that not how I want id to be. she works all the time now, and i do it move so we really never have time togather. i love her and we both don't want to leave so what could we do?
*thanks to all that replay*
2007-05-29 08:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband & I have been married for 3 1/2 years & we have never ,& I do mean never, had a fight.
You definately need to establish the relationship with good conversation. What I mean is, talk about everything. Run everything by the other. We have never been so happy. I know you will get there too.
I don't know if you two have marriage in view, but be sure to lay a good foundation before hand. Every relationship & family, for that matter, need an excellent foundation.
Instead of spending so much time out (dates, etc.), stay in & have "your" time. We don't go on many dates because it's not as special when we do all the time. Rent a movie or watch t.v., play games. Only go out once in a while, so it's more special for you two. Take a nice trip every once in a while, whether it's just down the road to the B&B or you go out of town. Make it a point to spend time "together" & not somewhere you will run into people you know.
Since you say she is working a lot here lately...Take her a single rose to work & tell her you love her & leave it at that. Even ask her when she eats lunch & take her lunch you made (not from McD's,etc.) It's more thoughtful & special if you actually made her lunch. Don't do this all of the time, then it won't be as special. She will start to expect it & therfore lead to more arguing & fights.
Don't devote all of your time to her...She may start to feel smothered. Only you know your girlfriends moods, wants & needs. If she is the needy kind then give her what she needs, if she is the distant kind, then take her lunch every now & then, just to let her know you are still here & love her.
Good luck to you & I hope everything works out. God bless.
2007-05-29 08:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by lilzoo411@yahoo.com 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are the only person worth living for, not someone else. A partner is someone that enhances your life, not becomes it. Have more confidence in your own abilities and find strength from within.
That being said, maybe you should spend some time apart. This sounds like the beginning of the end...sorry.
2007-05-29 15:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the right tools to do the job properly. Your mixed up, its boys & girls.
2007-05-29 15:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Find a good man (if your a woman).
2007-05-29 15:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋