Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

hey, im in a relationship with my boyfriend of one year, and we live together, things are not going good at all, we havent had sex for months. We are more friends than anything..so im moving out in a few weeks. Now im moving out to near my sisters and a guy i kinda grew up with lives beside her. We had a fling not last summer, but the summer before, and than after that i moved in with boyfriend and that was that. When we see eachother, its a huge spark, everyone thinks we would be cute together..but he is such a moron, lol. My sister said he is ALWAYS asking her about me..I do like him, always had a crush and he seems to always be around when i do need someone...could he possibly be a soulmate that i am ignoring??? because i have ignored him and was kinda mean to him.

2007-05-29 04:54:40 · 4 answers · asked by *CoUrAgE* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 04:53:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 04:51:36 · 22 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 04:47:18 · 81 answers · asked by Meg 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at my bestfriend house this weekend. She lives with her bf. Her bf's ex-wife has been doing things here and there to make her upset. Well this weekend, her bf's ex-wife came over their apartment complex with her friends & her friends kids to go swimming at the pool there. The ex-wife calls tells my friends bf that she was coming over at the last minute, he told her ok, gave her the code to get into the gate where the pool is & h/u. My friend was upset. Then the ex-wife kept calling the house asking for my friends bf to bring different items to the area were they were cooking out. (It turned out to be a pool party) then the ex calls and invites him up to get a plate of food. I stayed out of it, but I felt that both her bf and his ex-wife were very inconsiderate of my friends feelings. Coming over to swim and have your party is fine,but it was very obvious that she was trying to start something with my friend by calling the house for no apparent reason. What is your opinion?

2007-05-29 04:46:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got married 3.5 months but was unaware i was pregnant at the time(i had some light bleeding i thought it was my cyst acting up).My hubby and i dated 2 yrs he is 25 yrs old and i am 21 yrs old still in college.He was the perfect guy smart, mature,nice,took care of me and had a good job.Before the wedding took place we took a 4 month break because he was not sure if he was ready for marriage.During the break i had a fling with an ex.bf who had been my first everything and a history (flings/dating)that goes back to senior year of highschool. Month later hubby and i got married.I found out 2 months into our marriage that i was 4 months pregnant with my ex.bfs child.I came clean to my hubby he said he forgave me but 2 weeks later i came home to an almost baren apartment and he had left his cell so i could not reach him?Then his lawyer called ...I really want to speak to my hubby but cant seem to contct him?My best friends says i should just cut my losses and move on?

2007-05-29 04:43:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I have shared custody of our three daughters after a bad divorce. This form of custody can be difficult as both parents have 50/50 custody and share in decision making. There's been many problems since he was granted this much parenting time. To those of you whom have insite how difficult is it to lessen his custody. Here's the situation. We are supposed to be sharing in decisions for our three girls. He won't. He won't respond to my calls 70% of the time...same with emails. When he does he's hateful. He refuses discipline our young teen who is only 13. He recently allowed her to be out with a group of friends after curfew until 12:30 am. Her grades have plummeted! He refuses to work with me on this..and says she needs to "live and learn!" he states why does it matter that she received all the discipline at one house and none at the other as long as it all balances out!! She's headed for trouble thanks to his poor parenting. Can his parenting time be shortened?

2007-05-29 04:42:16 · 24 answers · asked by backflip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 04:42:03 · 23 answers · asked by aiden'smommy 3 in Singles & Dating

I got my GED by age 13. So I skipped high school. I graduated from college by age 17. I am now financially independent and own my own place. It sucks though I have to wait until my 3rd year in college to get my driver's permit. They have that 16 year old rule. Shouldn't I get my driver's license already by the 1st year of college? I don't have a girlfriend. I never had a girlfriend, way too busy for my studies. So, how can I start looking for a girlfriend? in my job?

2007-05-29 04:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by Andy Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Met a guy around 10 months ago through another guy friend we were like best friends and were also very attracted to each other. During the early stages he told me that he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship with any1 at the moment. So we were not intimate, but stayed close and got even closer than before. That was when he started saying that I am someone that he would like to be with as he has a soft spot for me, I am very intelligent, ambitious and very articulate. Then eventually we started seeing each other officially & things didn’t 100% work out, but could of as we got on SO WELL!! he still wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship & he was a very self centered and indecisive which were his down sides. we both tried to move on several times and would get back again. We finally broke things off as I gave him 1 last chance to tell me what exactly he wanted with regards to a relationship and he said that we should be friends as he cant give me or anyone that right now

2007-05-29 04:40:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My guy just called a little bit ago and told me he borrowed $10 from his Grandma to visit a friend in the hospital that I don't like or trust. (Get a balloon and parking) I guess the driver got killed and she was hurt. What he wants me to do is give him $10 to pay back his grandma. Should I help him out even though I can't STAND this girl he is going to visit or tell him as nice as I can that he is on his own in this situation. He is in between jobs right now.

I don't really feel it is my job to pay his grandma back cause he wants to visit his friend. The main problem is telling him I don't want to pay her back that he needs to do it. What do you suggest? He knows I don't like her. He can be friends with her & all but I am not going to be his way of seeing her. Get what I mean?

2007-05-29 04:33:26 · 7 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 21 years old and my girlfriend is 14 years old. We met at college. She is an officially a college student, not high school. We've been dating each other for 6 months already. I am really much in love with her. She's in love with me too. She's going to be financially independent by 19-20. While with me, I have to wait until I am 24-25 to be financially independant. Do you think a 7 year gap is bad?

2007-05-29 04:33:23 · 14 answers · asked by Ken H 1 in Weddings

I am 21 years old and my girlfriend is 14 years old. We met at college. She is an officially a college student, not high school. We've been dating each other for 6 months already. I am really much in love with her. She's in love with me too. She's going to be financially independent by 19-20. While with me, I have to wait until I am 24-25 to be financially independant. Do you think a 7 year gap is bad?

2007-05-29 04:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by Ken H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was out on sat night and my best friends husband came on to me again ..i have always told her when this happens ...she had a go at him ...and he said i came on to him !!! she believes me as his nearly 50 and im 35 ...she knows i never would if he was the last man on earth ....then i have also heard that a friend of ours was upset as i was talking to her husband !!! all i said to him was hi at the bar while i was getting a drink !!!dont even know his name for christs sake !!!
seems to me as im a single woman of 35 they are all afraid im going to go after there husbands !!! or the men think im up for it as i have been single for a while
not bragging but i dont think im ugly ...i scrub up pretty well !!
i think they are just scared of a pretty woman !!
just getting sick of being labelled as a sex object
please help !!! anyone with simalar experiences

2007-05-29 04:32:28 · 13 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Post ing again about the same guy. I love him, but I don't think he loves me anymore. We live in two different states and it can be really difficult to maintain a relationship. On our last phone conversation, I was kind of upset because I felt like he was ignoring me. He told me I needed to " miss him less". I didn't understand. I love him and it gets really hard to live each day without him. When I thought about it, I think it was his way of saying " I don't love you anymor" but just in a nicer, don't hurt feelings tone. But it did, because in my heart I knew he didn't love me anymore. I'm trying to let go and need help. Any suggestions?

2007-05-29 04:29:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my husband is a very rich man and i caught him cheating on me with 3 different women, i married him 15 years ago and we have 2 lovely children, he has backstabbed me and i really want to hurt him... he doesnt know that i know he's cheating... hell he is probably with one of his mistresses now... i just want to take half of his money... i dont really care about the money i just want to ruin his life... and dont tell me to confront him or move on or nothing like that... when u catch ur husband cheating on you and you want to go him back you wouldnt want someone telling u to move on... i just want to know how to get a prenup removed so i can divorce his *** and get half?

2007-05-29 04:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by jane s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 04:26:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 04:26:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well? what d'ya reckon?

2007-05-29 04:18:58 · 9 answers · asked by cockneyboy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 04:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like my two guy friends who have made me laugh and have been great to me for some time. The thing is, I don't know who I like more, and am so confused. One is closer than the other to me, but not as good looking. The other is more good looking, but he seems very emotionless, either that or he really keeps things in. He's so mellow(not like me at all), and I couldn't and wouldn't tell him half the things I tell the other one, we just don't seem to click as well, but he's still a great guy. I think the closer one may like me, but he had told me another girl he liked not too long ago. The good looking one seems to like my other friend, and I don't feel as myself around him. I think I like him more, but I'm so not sure! Please help me with what I should do!

2007-05-29 04:11:26 · 15 answers · asked by kammy 2 in Singles & Dating

My woman wont touch me, yet much hotter chicks are throwing themselves at me everyday at work, at the bar, ect...I am not a bad looking dude and am rather confused why my woman(who used to be a godess in the sack) has the sex drive of a 85 year old vegtable...

2007-05-29 04:11:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 04:09:27 · 9 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

how do you tell a man that he is gaining weight without hurting is pride/manhood/feelings? we have been together for almost 4yrs now he is getting bigger. i dont want to hurt his feelings but its becoming an issue for me because i find him less attractive now.

2007-05-29 04:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by knk724 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife says she loves someone else but still loves me. She can't be with this other person for another 10 years as he is a prisoner she is a guard but says she is going there when he gets out. We have been married for 26 years and still get along great. So do i stick with her for the time being hoping she changes her mind or do i leave now and look for someone else.

2007-05-29 04:03:02 · 23 answers · asked by stan155 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 5 years of living in a basement bedroom separated, after 17 years of on and off again relationship, I am alittle sick of no companionship. Should I wait the D is over to date?

2007-05-29 03:59:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband and our 2 kids live his mom and stepdad. My husband is away in Fl working when this happend and won't be back till 6/1. My husband has alot of anger towards him already. My husband is on probation so he can't get into anymore trouble. I know when he finds out he will really hurt him. and right now we have know where else to go.

2007-05-29 03:58:03 · 16 answers · asked by lips1220 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1 carat? 2 carats? 3 carats?

When is it too big??

2007-05-29 03:54:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

says they get along but i wonder if the novelty of being taken care of is the appeal. Would most girls take a relationship like this over a person who she has better chemistry and feelings for?

2007-05-29 03:54:30 · 8 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

what would be the reasons?

2007-05-29 03:52:58 · 4 answers · asked by lou k 1 in Singles & Dating