2007-05-29 04:53:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she was your true friend, I would say she should have respected you more than that. She must have had a thing for him before you two broke up or else she would not have had anything else to do with him afterward. She does not have your best interests in mind only her own selfish wants. So my advice to you is to find a new friend. True friends are hard to find.
2007-05-29 05:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by justn4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad. There's an unwritten woman's code of **** you don't do. One being: Don't date/ hook up/ flirt/ try to get with( you don't even have to be successful at it) any of your girlfriends ex's especially your sister's. That's gross and disrespectful. It's even worse that she hasn't told you. If she is going to be low enough to go behind your back and start sleeping with your ex and not even have the courtesy to tell you, that doesn't speak highly of your sister. The only exception is if she thought that her and him would be going anywhere with this and if they did they both should have consulted you before anything happened. Neither of them are respecting you and it's sad to hear because the two of them won't work out anyways and this will all have been for nothing. She has damaged your trust for a one night stand.
2016-04-01 02:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she slept with your ex, after he was an ex, he's fair game,
and there's nothing to forgive, because she didn't do anything to you. Let her enjoy your leftovers; you don't want him.
If you and the ex were having some difficulties, and you expected to get back together, and she knew that, but
slept with him anyway, then she's not your friend, and doesn't deserve forgiveness.
Only you know the answer; think about it honestly.
2007-05-29 04:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by M S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the level of your friendship? Was your ex-boyfriend off limits? If so, why? He is your ex. Could any anger be because your friend and your ex connected in a way that you hadn't.
What peaks my curiosity is the motivation behind you ex's action. Do you still harbor feelings for him or does he harbor some animosity toward you?
Bottom line. If your feelings are hurt, that is unfortunate. I do not think your friend is a going to me much comfort and if she continues to see your ex, it is going to make your relationship to her a little sticky.
2007-05-29 05:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you need to remind yourself why you broke up with him. Do you still love him by wanted better for him, or did it just not work out?
Technically, if you broke up with him at first becuse if was something you did it, would be a no. After all, he is your ex, which means that your relationship with him has changed and you no longer have the same 'control' over him.
Furthermore, you friend would see that you and your ex are no longer and 'item', so he is free to her.
2007-05-29 05:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ruby C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm different from most women, but if he's your ex, he's fair game. Being your friend, it would be a courtesy for her to at least let you know that she was interested in your ex. I think the situation would be quite awkward. If I was in your place, I would be uncomfortable with a friend being with my ex because that's just too close. And if it was a hard break-up, it would be difficult to be around your friend without your ex being around.
2007-05-29 05:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on a couple things:
1. How long have you been broken up?
2. How close of a friend is she?
3. Did she ask you about it before it happened?
4. Did she lie about it when you found out?
2007-05-29 04:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think she should'nt have done that the question is how long ago was it when you two broke up if it was like only 1 month ago than i would be very mad at her saying " i thought you were my friend". Just tell her right now i dont really want to talk to you cuz i am hurt
2007-05-29 04:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really you shouldn't be mad at your friend becasue she slep with your EX-BF... If you haven't broken up with him and your friend slept with your BF then yeah I would be mad smiliing.. But other than that.. I am not sure why but You shouldn't be mad at your friend for sleeping with your EX-BF smiling...So you telling me that you have feelings for your EX-BF if so why is it taking you long to tell him or some other woman took your ex smilng.
2007-05-29 04:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u said he was an ex so i don't think u should be all that mad at her. maybe a little mad but he's an ex so...
but if u still have feelings for ur ex and ur freind knew, that might be different.
2007-05-29 04:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋