I like my two guy friends who have made me laugh and have been great to me for some time. The thing is, I don't know who I like more, and am so confused. One is closer than the other to me, but not as good looking. The other is more good looking, but he seems very emotionless, either that or he really keeps things in. He's so mellow(not like me at all), and I couldn't and wouldn't tell him half the things I tell the other one, we just don't seem to click as well, but he's still a great guy. I think the closer one may like me, but he had told me another girl he liked not too long ago. The good looking one seems to like my other friend, and I don't feel as myself around him. I think I like him more, but I'm so not sure! Please help me with what I should do!
2007-05-29 04:11:26 · 15 answers · asked by kammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not exactly the dating expert. But read what you stated. The first guy is the one who isn't so good looking. the second is good looking.
Now, you said that you don't feel like yourself with the second guy. The question is, do you feel like yourself with the first one then?
So you say that you don't click with the second one like you do with the first. A relationship is actually two persons tryng to be one. So do you think that you share your interest with the first one more?
Personally, it seems that you like the first one better. You are just confused because somewhat the second one is better looking. Because if you are going to read what you said, it says how much you really blend with the first one. You are somewhat hesitant though due to his personal appearance.
This is my opinion though. just ask yourself, with whom would I be happy with?
2007-05-29 04:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by miyukaii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem shallow to go after a guy who is just more good looking but emotionless. What will you get out of someone who is emotionless. After 3 times bed, he is finished for you. joint Life is all about connections and communications. For sure i dont deny the fact that one must also look the way you want to make you feel the butterfly, but i say that is not all.
Try to clear the situation with the one who is more close to you and then if he is interested with another girl(which i dont believe) then go fro the good looking emotionless one.
good luck
2007-05-29 04:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by fredy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg I knw exactly how u feel...Im not kidding...Exactly, and Im going through the same thing with my 2 best guy friends, except for the emotionless one, I click with very much and feel at home around him, but the other one I feel more at home with, and I think that one likes me...So I know what u feel like. If u get a good answer, foward it to me...plz...oh and good luck...
2007-06-06 04:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I have found that looks are not everything its all how they treat you. The good looking one are all into just seeing how many women they can get. You said he not that good looking. You wont have to worry about all the other women going after him.I think that it is all how they treat you. Don't you want a man to love you?????Sweet heart I think you already know what you want bu what you have wrote. I think you will chose the right one with out any of our help. Just let your heart choose.Pray on it, it always helps me. Good luck sweet heart.
2007-06-06 01:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by blueyedreamer67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go with the non-goodlooking one because you said so yourself that you don't feel as 'yourself' when you are with the good-looking one! in a relationship you need to comfortable with your partner.
you are closer to the non-goodlooking one and you can communicate your emotions with him, so one part of your relationship is set, COMUNICATION. maybe he told you he liked her because he felt that he had to have a crush on SOMEONE, ANYONE. But you should talk more with him and see if he does like you, even though, you could still express your feelings but then since you are such good friends it may not be akaward?
hope i helped.
just follow your heart!!
2007-06-06 04:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by runr15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pass with character, he will make you happier contained in the long-term. once you're all eighty and contained in the nursing living house at the same time, truthfully everyone's seems would be long previous yet a minimum of you 2 will nevertheless have a particular bond you are able to consistently anticipate.
2016-10-06 06:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with one one that you can feel the most comfortable around, the one who you can tell almost anything to. Looks aren't everything. I go for the personality.
2007-05-29 04:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your friends then keep them that way. You never know what'll happen. If something goes wrong then you have your heart broken and you lose one of your best friends.
If you feel that you really want to go out with one then wait for them to ask you.
2007-05-29 04:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Chris R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def go for the one you connect with. so what if he's not as good looking? you'll be attracted to his personality! just make sure you make your move and fast, i went through the same thing and he ended up going out with someone else cuz i took too long..it wasn't fun =[
2007-06-06 03:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by jessie =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for one go for it, if not try both of them. Otherwise just stay friends as soon as you take either or both of them on you will blow your frindhip and probably loose both
2007-05-29 04:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by pajero2003np 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋