This has quite possibly been the worst weekend of my life! First I got grounded for 3 weeks for sneaking out (which i accept) then I find out my bf slept with some whore at prom so now he's treating me like crap, then my sister moved out because she hates my parents (now my mom thinks she failed as a parent and is really upset) then my other sister's bf tried to break into a corner store by our house and got arrested (so now she's upset because of that and becasue my dad is basically rubbing it in his face). So now I have all this stress and I'm upset and don't know what to do! Can anyone give me any advice on any of these problems I have? I can't handle anymore stress like this!
2007-05-29 03:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is quite a weekend! The best thing to do is to keep yourself below the radar so that you get out of trouble. Your parents are under a good bit of stress, too, so try to take some of the weight off of them by doing housework or cooking since you will be there anyway, and I am sure that they will appreciate it.
2007-05-29 03:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you did something WRONG, then a grounding is a good thing....as for the boyfriend who slept with someone, if you are young enough to still be GROUNDED by parents, you are TOO YOUNG to have a boyfriend serious enough to be sleeping with ANYONE.... dump the bum....if he sleeps around, he's not good enough for you and you can do MUCH better. As for your two sister's problems, obviously, your family is dysfunctional... give it some time and after things calm down MAYBE things will be easier... thing about a bad day or two is that eventually, a good day or two will follow IF you wait long enough... until then, try to realize that what goes on between your parents and your SISTERS is THEIR problem and you just worry about yourself... but get RID of that good-for-nothing cheating boyfriend. Summer is almost here and a good time to start a WHOLE new beginning....(after you are done being grounded of course)....
2007-05-29 10:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of these problems are life-threatening. Dump your BF, he's not trustworthy, listen to your parents and stop sneaking out, Sister should also dump the attempted felon-he's bad news, your other sister will see how tough life is when you have to support yourself and come home, your Mom will calm down soon.
All of this will pass so don't stress.
2007-05-29 10:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times when it just seems like the whole world is going nuts. All you can do is take a deep breath and go down the list of your problems and ask "Is there anything I can do to make this better?". If the answer is yes, do what you can. If the answer is no then just let it go.
2007-05-29 10:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf slept with someone else, break up with him immediately. if you take him back you are telling him it's ok to cheat on you. everything else isn't about you, so you just try to support your family and take time for yourself to do things you like to help yourself feel better. Maybe watch a movie that makes you laugh.
2007-05-29 11:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by yahookk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your bf. Try to help your family deal with the stress it will help you too.
2007-05-29 10:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by gizmo0013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just worry about yourself and your own actions and find ways to better things between you and your parents. Everyone else can go screw themselves.
2007-05-29 10:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋