not to sound conceited, but I think I am very physically attractive. Come on, a lot of you guys think you're hot, too-don't lie! But anyway, I KNOW I look good, but it seems like only the UGLY guys like me, and the cute ones treat me like dirt! Why is this?
2007-05-29 06:09:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gee, I dunno - you think attitude has anything to do with it?
2007-05-29 06:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are this. If you are as good looking as you claim, then you are probably intimidating to guys. Even though you think that because a guy is good looking that he is also confident. But in reality good looking guys are not any different than other guys. These "ugly" guys that you say keep approaching you may just be more outgoing and feel like they have a one in a million chance with you and are expecting to be turned down. Where as a guy who is in your "league" doesnt want to chance rejection by someone he considers an equal.
2007-05-29 06:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by j_smail05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz they intimidated. Just dont worry about it a cute guy will come in due time. Just be nice 2 the ugly ones, dont date them, just tell them u r seeing somebody. Guys always come when u are not looking. Oh and guys think that all pretty girls like guys that treat them like shitttt 4 some reason.
2007-05-29 06:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...honestly it is because some really great looking people don't want to share the lime light in a relationship. Really great looking guys can be a bit vain and self concerned...feeling that it affords them special treatment because of it. So if they hook up with a really beautiful woman...it won't be able to be all about them. If they go with a good looking woman (but not too beautiful)...then they know the woman will cater to their needs...somehow they believe their beauty should bring special treatment....and vice versa. It's all pretty shallow really....sad too. I know you have a strong opinion about your outside beauty....but can you tell us that you are as beautiful on the inside...because that is where the real attraction is. The outside will only carry you so far. Good luck.
2007-05-29 06:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it could be your attitude :)
Perhaps you need a change of scene? If you hang out with a certain type of people, you might not get to see someone cute that'll treat you right. However, it depends on how you act...guys like to chase, not be chased. They do like it when we flirt and act caring and stuff, but they usually want to be the ones to sweep us off our feet, not the other way around.
2007-05-29 06:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Oh boy, yeah I know where you are coming from.*
.I have the same exact dilemma.
~It's like I am attractive...but yet for some reason, all the "ugly" ugys like me and the "hot" ones that do like me, are all jerks and treat me like crap.~
.Hmmmmm....I've been trying to figure this one out.
.I have no explaination yet.....but when I do, I will let you know.
Ummmm.....well I take that back, I have a silly "theory" of why that may be.
*Maybe were not like "hot" but were "average" therefore "ugly guys" aren't so intimidated by us, which is why they're not shy to approach us.
.As for the hot guys being jerks, well they always are jerks...so that is nothing new.
.The hot guys might also be jerks b/c they think since were not "hot" or whatever that we'll take that type of treatment and not give them any crap back for it. Unlike "hot" girls who are bitchy and never seem to put up with anything....do you know what I mean?
......haha...I have no clue.
2007-05-29 06:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, in my opinion, some good-looking people who get told that they're good-looking on a regular basis tend to get swell heads *cough cough, nudge nudge!*..lol..Therefore, they go around getting by on their looks and are flaunting the fact that they have a couple of people drooling over them, and taking advantage of it....
Those "ugly" guys that you complain about don't have that problem and they actually care about things other than themselves...they've also probably had time to perfect something other than their clothes and hair...
2007-05-29 06:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Prima_Donnassassin! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you maybe pretty on the outside, but not on the inside. As hard it is to believe, looks aren't the only factor of attracting a guy. Looks may be what lures guys towards you, but in the end its the personality that must keep them attracted to you
2007-05-29 06:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by snowangels 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well the question should be - if you know you look good then why would you settle for someone less than what you feel you are worthy of? Nobody is forcing you to date ugly guys!
2007-05-29 06:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the ugly guys feel like they have nothing to lose by liking you/ asking you out. They don't fear rejection (since they obviously get alot of it) and are more willing to take a chance to see if they'll get lucky.
2007-05-29 06:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its your narcissistic personality. No one likes people who thinks so highly of themselves that they make themselves unapproachable. There are no ugly people, just ugly attitudes, and you my dear seem to be the owner of one of those.
2007-05-29 06:14:26 · answer #11 · answered by Sr. Mary Holywater 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋