will he wont me back after spliting with me the 5th time on his terms
he always ask for me back, he dump me as i wonted to spend more time with him at weekends, he said i moan and finshed it.
i am missin him dint hear from him till last nite out the blue he kalled of a dif num.
he was like "just callin to se how you are and if you had a nice weekend he was on the phone for 50 mins and whilset chatting hinted for me to go over at 11pm to watch tv with him , this yet again at end of weekend, i said lol no i would if u ask me ealier
im playing it kol and sound happy and wen said good bye said good bye quick , he then goes oh ok well il text u tomorow how my 1st day at my new job goes and u kan tb and say how u interview went.
i feel he just keepin me there to pick me up again as b 4 i changed me number, i havent this time but he rang sayin u havent text or anythin thoiught il kal u , so ill just tb wen he does.
what shall i do im fed up do mis him, but he wont change i love him
2007-05-29 00:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say this, but sounds like your ex has another girl. Whenever a man doesn't want to see you during the weekend, but at the end of it...there is someone else involved. He knows that he has you right where he wants you. You are the back up plan. If I were you, I would end this unhealthy relationship once and for all and go find someone who wants you and only you.
2007-05-29 00:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by traceylenore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You`re doing the best thing by playing cool. Even go as far as to say you`ve started seeing someone else on a casual basis, nothing too serious. Its Human nature to want something you cant have! Tell him things are great at your end and thats the way you`d like to keep it, ask him to cool off ringing you so you can concentrate on your life and your "potential new relationship". He sounds like hes using you. He wants his fun at the weekend and hes stringing you along. Please dont play his game. He may just need a jolt back to reality, so if he really cares for you losing you would hurt him. Dont let him make the choices for you. Next time he phones say you`ve got plans. Dont tell him any details. He`ll either come running because he realises hes losing you or he`ll leave you alone which proves he doesn`t care.
Good Luck and stay strong x
2007-05-29 08:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by suzanne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesnt he wanna see you at weekends?
Sounds dodgy to me like he's got another girl he see's and just wants you for during the week.
2007-05-29 07:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by chris_uk23_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why keep breaking up?
Why keep going back?
You must be a glutton for punishment!..
This time stay away, change your phone number have nothing to do with him..
2007-05-29 09:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound as if he is taking you for a ride. ive been through this my self. tell him you have met someone else, you need to get over him because if you keep repling and answering phone calls it is never going to end.
2007-05-29 07:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no! you HAVE to move on! he's obviously just using you and you must be completely out of your mind to get back with him 5 times already!! you might love him but he most definitely does not love you, so is it really worth it?? forget about him and find someone who is worthy of your love.
2007-05-29 07:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by sparky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my ex. move on girl. i was like u till cut all ties with him now im in a wonderful relationship with a kind caring man who most of all respects me. do urself a favor dump that looser
2007-05-29 08:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to change, so don't give in to him. Talk and text him back when he gets in touch but don't go running to him.
2007-05-29 08:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It sounds to me that he doesn't know what he wants, just get on with your life, and tell him when he has made up his mind, to let you know, but that you wont wait forever.
2007-05-29 07:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sparky..I told you before,nothing will ever change but if you wanna learn that the hard way,carry on....
2007-05-29 07:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by trish b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋