First off I am 26 not some high school guy who is in puppy love...
I was engaged to a girl for 2 1/2 yrs, knew her for about 15, bought a house together, lived together, and then she left me high and dry and moved to AZ. Found out she was lieing to me, possibly cheating, used me for $, and was all in all heartless to me and others. Haven't talked to her in 6 months then she called, she flew here, and we've been hanging out (having sex - good sex) and she been telling me she loves me and blah, blah, blah
Since she left I met someone great, caring, honest and treats better in 2 months then she did in 2 yrs. she doen't know the other in is town and I don't like to lie but I can't say no to my ex. I think (know) its just a physical thing with my ex, cause her personality is lame and she is a liar. The new girl is great, and I don't want to lose her. But are very good looking girls but I can't get over my ex.
Should I throw it all way for my ex untill she leaves or break ties?
2007-05-29 02:09:12 · 11 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Decisions are a part of life. You have to see what is more important to you sex or love. Think about this way of course sex with your ex would be good because you two were together for a good length of time, so she should know how to satisfy you. We all should forgive people, but we don't have to subject ourselves to disappointment and pain. If your new girl shows you unconditional love that is what you want. Your ex just might have a little more sexual experience than your new g/f, but if you focus on your present and treat your g/f right your can get her to do anything in the bed. Whatever your ex had going on in AZ obviously didn't work out. The grass wasn't greener on the other side. You ex wants to come back and use you all over again. She saw she got away with it one time. Why not come back lay some good sex on you, and mess with your head and get whatever she wants.
2007-05-29 03:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by wisdom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girfriend of 2 1/2 yrs. left and you met someone new, why go back into the arms of your ex? You must break ties with the ex and be honest, she was not honest with you. The relationship was not base on trust - so you don't need to lead her on (because the sex is good) poor excuse. Drop her now!
2007-05-29 02:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, your a dog...........You claim to really care about this new girl, but your out f*cking your ex cause its good?? give me a break your the one that's lame........And Puppy love?? Im a high school chick and have been with my man for damn near 5 years. And its not puppy love sweetie and he's more of a man then you could ever be and he know how to treat a women. Before you can even care about this other women, grow up...........Trust me she doesnt want a lil boy, she wants a grown as* man so man up
2007-05-29 02:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one and only you can answer your own question. What was done can never be changed, knowing this you have to decide for yourself if you would ever be able to trust your ex again and roll with it until next time or, remain with your current girlfriend who you enjoy being with and see where it leads too. If your ex truly wants you back and not just for sex and money, then she will fight for you and change her old ways and try and earn back that respect you once had for her. It's her move now.
2007-05-29 02:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's easier said than done but break ties with the ex. Who's to say she wont do all that crap again. The fact that you're sleeping with her is bad. Unless its just sex and you have no more feelings for her. By your question though, I feel you're still hung up on this woman. Let her go. Good luck, man.
2007-05-29 02:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lewcifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i think your ex is playing you ya im sure of it she did leave you before maybe she doesnt have enough money anymore you can go with your ex but you will regret it you guys can go around making luv to each other but the other new girl is innocent and maybe she loves you and is a much better person than your ex you will brake the new girls heart if you go wid the ex gf you used to have im just saying you will regret everything
2007-05-29 02:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's not easy to let go of someone you've been so close to, but she is the one that betrayed you and therefore you need to tell her that you want tomove on with your life and that she is in the way of you moving forward, Don't let the Sex fool you, you can always have great Sex with the person that you were with when she was gone....Honesty is the Best Policy guaranteed....Don't move backwards but forward!!!
2007-05-29 02:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do unto others the way they done unto u.
drop the liar quick and go for the honest gal.
sounds like the ex is using you and u dont need that
right now.
u can get sex anywhere, but love is so much better.
2007-05-29 02:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you arent valuing yourself the way you should. your ex mauled your heart, and you let her back into your life for good sex?? come'n. you are better than that. even worse... you are sort of letting her be in control. this is like round 2 of ruining your life and breaking your heart. as soon as your new girl knows, you'll truely lose someone who actually cares about you... and your ex has won again.
ditch ex. embrace new relationship.
-you deserve it
2007-05-29 02:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get rid of your ex. Obviously, she does not really have real feelings for you or she would have not just left you hangin!
2007-05-29 02:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by NikoleUniQue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋