my dad treated me if i got my gf preg and i did he said he would kill me now im about to run away i need somethings i need to do before i do run
2007-05-29 01:49:10 · 17 answers · asked by aglowacki102690 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Rethink this. Two mistakes will only compound your problems so running isn't the way to solve it. Cowards and children run ~ your child needs adults to care for him or her.
Sit down and map out a plan ~ education and a job should be at the top of the list right now.
Talk with your counselor at school and let them know what has happened and see if they can suggest any places you might get a job or any other helpful hints.
Once you have your plans mapped, it's time to be a man and face your dad. Tell him what you have worked out and show him that you are taking on the responsibility for your actions ~ and apologize for not listening to him but tell him you can't change it now, all you can do is your best to take care of things.
Parents want the best for their kids and he knew what would happen if she got pregnant so he is going to be very disappointed but you need to show him you are trying to be a man and take care of the problem. Running away is only going to make you look worse and will end up causing more problems.
If your dad will let you continue to live with him, that is your best bet right now. You can work and start saving money to pay for things you will need for the baby. If you run away, you will have to pay rent and utilities and the baby will not be able to get the best of care.
Love the baby enough to try and do the right thing. The baby didn't ask for this so you need to act responsibly and see that that baby has parents that will set a good example for them.
Good luck ~ wishing you well and keeping you in prayer.
2007-05-29 02:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and don't run away. Take responsibility. You made your bed now lay in it. Stay and help look after your child running away will only make things worse unless you have somewhere to go like a family members house. Other than that what are you gonna do? do you have money? How are you gonna survive? What about school or college?
Have you even thought about of any of the above? You need to sit down and have a good think about this. It's not a smart idea but if you are seriously affraid then i won't advise you to stay either. Go to the police or a family member that can help.
Good luck
2007-05-29 08:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make a whole lot of sense, but from what I gather you want to run away from home. There are three things here that bother me. One, you are 16 and getting girls pregnant when you're only a pup yourself - how do you plan on looking after this baby? are you going to keep it? how old is your girlfriend etc?. Two, you now want to run away from your Dad (who i'm sure won't literally kill you - he's your Dad), instead of stepping up to the plate and explaining things to him (he seriously won't kill you mate). Three - you're asking what you need to do before you run away and ruin your life some more, therefore you have absolutely no idea how the real world works and you'll last two minutes out on the street.
Actually I think my main concern is the poor little baby who will no doubt be another brought into this world with no opportunity and decent standard of living, by a couple of kids who need to face reality and grow up, as they have no idea what they're doing. Go to school, get a job, and start practicing safe sex, you should have been educated on that years ago.
2007-05-29 08:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of running away, why dont you run and get a job ! What you need to do now is change your perspective of running away from your problems, grow up and be a man and start facing things head on. Trust me, this isnt the end of the world.
2007-05-29 09:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away won't help anything. Talk to your father like an adult. Reassure him that you will take care of your responsibilities. Then do what you have to do. Go get a job an help take care of your seed. My parents were both disappointed in me when I had both of my kids at a young age. My first one was born when I was 15 yrs old. I'm currently 26 yrs old. You just have to be determined and always keep a positive attitude. Pray about the situation it works.
2007-05-29 08:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by wisdom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think it through man. Parents tell their kids stuff all the time just to scare them, not to scare them away. No matter what your dad most likely will still love you. My parents said if I was gay they would disown me, I didn't run away, they just got used to it. Give it a chance, you don't want to regret it later.
2007-05-29 09:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility for your unborn child. You are clearly too young for a baby so, she either needs to consider ana bortion or, you need to be a man, get a job & support your girlfriend & baby.
2007-05-29 08:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Aussie 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, before you go ... let me welcome you to the world of adults.
If your girlfriend is pregnant, get a job, support her and the baby, grow up and be a man of integrity, not someone who runs away when faced with a challenge.
2007-05-29 08:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a man. Don't run. Face your father and take the screaming and yelling. You deserve it. Then learn and figure out how to straighten out your life.
2007-05-29 08:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I found out I was pregnant at 16, and my parents always said they would kill me....when that time came...it was completely different...talk toy our parents...be honest and take responsibility for your actions and your child
2007-05-29 11:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Heather Randall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋