Hi again,
I met someone on an on-line dating site at the beginning of March. We talked and finally met at the end of March. We have been seeing each other since but agreed to keep our options open, mainly becuase we are both looking for a serious relationship and want children and we are both late 30s.
We agreed weeks ago to go for HIV testing and get the results soon. We are sleeping together. But he is still looking at his on-line dating profile.
So when is it reasonable to bring up the topic of whether we are going to try exclusive? We just seem to flit around the topic recently.
We do get on great and I see him at least twice a week and talk to him most days so it seemed like we are exclusive and he said we should definitely tell each other if there is anyone else we might be interested in.
2007-05-29 23:00:55 · 3 answers · asked by confused chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask. be up front and ask. no harm in being open.
2007-05-29 23:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me too. First you need to know the guy, date the guy and only then, if your feelings are truth and he a worthy man to be given them, then I would ask that.
Althought I might have to tell you, if you really need to ask that to him, I would get suspitious. It it cool to know that you don't need to ask something like that to him, that he does it willingly.
2007-05-29 23:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by calewien_vuwen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't sound exclusive to me.
2007-05-29 23:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋