Okay, so I've been friends with my best friend for 2 years now, we used to know each other a little bit at school but got more friendly at college, now we're like really close.
However... last year I was also friends with this other boy, and we kind of fancied each other but nothing ever really happened, my best friend never actually met the guy.
Then one nite I had a party and my best friend and the boy I fancied met for the first time, and found out that they lived near each other. Well over time we sort of stopped fancying eachother cos nothing was ever gna happen, but now, my best friend and my other friend always spend time together and leave me out of everything. They even purposly exclude me out of things. I feel really hurt that I've been butted out of this whole friendship, especially seeing as they met through me and are now leaving me out of everything. But am I just being a baby? I'm not sure what to do?
Sorry for long question.
2007-05-29 23:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by Smiler 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should talk to your best friend and let her know how you feel. Maybe they aren't doing it on purpose. As you get older friendships change and grow. You need to be able to let go when it is time.
2007-05-29 23:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation, and my only advice for you is confrontation. this will allow u to express your thoughts and feelings, also it will allow ur friend to know wat the situation is.
the funny thing is my situation is exactly like yours, except we were just friends and not fancied each other. lol
so good luck, and i really hope it works out for you like it did for me. btw u must also know that it will take time and a lot of effort on your behalf to make this 3 way friend ship work, but believe me it will work in the end, except i still dont get invited to some places but hay, were still friends in the end.
so once again good luck
2007-05-29 23:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two is not a company. Its divine love. Third is universe. You , God and Universe.
2007-05-29 23:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
two's company
2007-05-29 23:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now their a couple. You are a crowd!
2007-05-29 23:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋