I have been married for 1.5 years my wife left me for about a month when we got back together and all was going good she left again it she was saying its because i hassel her for sex and i disrespect her.
I really love her and want to make it up to her but she keeps telling me she has heard it all before and she does not believe that i want to fix it or will fix it .
I have asked her if she could have told me when i was annoying her and what i was doing that was disrespectful so i can fix it.
She tells me that she does not know if she wants to end it or not but she is sick of being hurt and does not know if she can take it anymore. How can i show her i am seriouse and love her. Should i just give her time to calm down about everything i think she still loves me and i have been treating her badly i just want to make it up to her help me please.
2007-05-29 23:10:21 · 5 answers · asked by jase m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope she gets a Glock and a restraining order.
Then her brothers get ahold of you in a dark alley.
2007-05-30 02:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went through something similar in my first two years of marriage. Separation sucks. I gave her the space she needed and went back to the beginning. You need to do all the things that you did when you first started dating. This time you do it better because you know more about her. Write her a letter. Take her out to her favorite restaurant, without any expectations. Instead of assuming intimacy, earn it. Make her feel like she's the only person in the world. Nothing is guaranteed, but if you truly love her, you will sacrifice all of your selfishness to make her needs come first. She will at the least respect the efforts you make, and if she loves you, in time, you'll be able to communicate freely again.
2007-05-31 22:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by 55JD55 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On one hand, you've probably done some somewhat-unwise stuff. On the other hand, how were you to know that you were doing things wrong if your spouse would never speak up?
Both sides have things to work on here.
2007-06-01 02:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off your high horse and be humble.Honor the fair lady.Words mean nothing if they're not sincere Actions speak louder than words,Prove your genuine.Don't tell the world of your love and devotion.Tell your good wife,mean it and do it
2007-05-30 06:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i was you i would give her some time...
2007-06-01 02:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋