im 14 and have a bf. hes amzing!! i absolutly love him. we brought up the idea of kissing and im scared. we have been dating for a while but i have never kissed no one and neither has he. im just nervous. is this normal or should i wait??
2007-06-02 21:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah72 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay Calm. Be Patient. Kissing is natural and normal. You only learn how to do it by doing it. If you both have the same feelings about it, then no one is going to be shocked or surprised. But you can't PLAN to do it, it should just happen. Go for a walk somewhere, talk about how you feel about your relationship...give him a deep hug...and just hold it, so your lips are by his ear...don't say anything...just keep your face against his, slide your lips down his cheek and kiss him...trust me...nature takes over...just press yours to his, with your lips slightly apart and keep them there. There's no big secret...the more you kiss, the better you get at it. HOWEVER, don't be afraid to let him know how he is doing when he kisses back...but 98% of the time, it will be perfect with a little practice....GL...Kes
2007-06-02 21:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have two options:
1)Don't kiss him and stay in your comfort zone
2)Kiss him and either regret the kiss or expand your comfort zone
Don't do anything you're scared 2 do if u feel like it's the wrong thing 2 do at your age, with him, at this point, etc. But facing your fears is also a difficult part of life. Facing your fears, or nervous feelings is always hard at the time but will pay off long term. It will help you grow and in this case take you and your boyfriends relationship to a new level.From, what u told us, he loves you a lot. If you feel like ur nervous but deep in heart you know it's the right thing, take a deep breath and do it. If you're unsure or against the prospect of kissing him, whether it be because of feeling that you're not ready for kissing at this point with this boy then share or thoughts with him.
2007-06-03 04:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by waddlin' along 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's normal, just don't plan your first kiss out. Make it a surprise! The right moment will come and you'll look into his eyes and you two will take the cue. Try holding his hand first.
2007-06-03 04:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by blondie_cheerangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with kissing brings on sex, but not necessarily sex, it can definitely bring on sex - related things though, so yeah be care-full, but in the mean time why not? It is so normal to be nervous, and if you want to why not, just do it, but if when your about to , ou change your mind, then stick with your gut feeling, and don't do it , if for some reason you don't want to
2007-06-03 04:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just kiss him its not like its sex thats when you need to start getting nervous scince hes never kissed anyone either its not lik u gotta worry about bein a bad kisser cuase yull both b bad kisseres and ya can help eachother get better btw can peole plz answer my qwestion
2007-06-03 04:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by dustin w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol ur 14 i did when i was younger not very younger but like middle school lol i was just ready and i absolutely love my boyfriend to death i cannot live without him he keeps me going just being the person that he is and his touch just makes me love him more when u get that feeling youll know you love ur bf{not like nasty touch like hugging duhhr sorry sum ppl think immature stuff}
2007-06-03 04:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by fadlfkasd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yeah i definetly think you should..like your 14....dats old enough to be kissin lads...it makes things alot easier 2 if the lad that tour kissing before hasnt kissed ne1 before...he wont be able tell if your good or bad..!!lol...go for it..
2007-06-03 04:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it. if your nervious about how bad you might be just say to yourself " how could he know what a good kiss is this is his first time too."
2007-06-03 04:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go head
dont wait
time never stops
enjoy the life
2007-06-03 04:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by aamirtaj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One thing may lead to another so be carefull.
2007-06-03 04:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by maram 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋