Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

2007-06-06 23:59:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't find my girlfriend attractive.
I can't even shake the snake over her (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=shake+the+snake)

She's really nice though and there is no way I can dump her without breaking her little ugly heart.

What would you do?

2007-06-06 23:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ladies with the bit of a tomboy in them or do you like your ladies femine in every way

2007-06-06 23:56:22 · 27 answers · asked by astra 5 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy stares at you and when you look at him he doesn't look away?

2007-06-06 23:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that sex education should be taught in school? Do you see this as a long term answer for kids to think about the consequences of their choices, stds and so on.
Do you think it needs to go into more detail than it has for years? Do you really believe that children who are guarded from it do better than children who are taught sex education?
I will be interested in your thaughts. Thanks!

2007-06-06 23:54:13 · 13 answers · asked by sharlaksmith 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is ıt possible to stay faithful to your spouse all life?...Or do we have to leave the sex just out of the love game of our marriage as having sex with the same person is considered boring and nonsense in our modern times?...

2007-06-06 23:53:24 · 16 answers · asked by pandora's box 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I tend to believe it's something we do, and that comes after time spent together.
If there's to be affection, it should come later.
First sight love is just the physical attraction phase.

2007-06-06 23:53:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with this guy for 8 months. he broke up with me 3 times. basically because he gets freaked out, some kind of stress-related...ejection seat or something. thing is he's totally besotted with me. he'd do anything for me.
due to final college exams we didn't talk for a month after the break up. i thought that was it. but he's begging for me back. absolutely begging. he's confiding things in me that he was always scared to tell me before, why he is the way he is, things he's never told anyone. he's giving absolutely everything he has to get me back. for some reason he thought i'd always be there. i said no. i'm a very proud person.

the day we met we were inseparable. best friends. it's a hard thing to give up such a rare chemistry like that. i don't click with ANYONE.
thing is he went through a rough period in his life, family AND college problems, and thought he should abort the relationship because of stress.
he's now offering to go to counselling and everything...

2007-06-06 23:51:21 · 16 answers · asked by Chasey Lane 2 in Singles & Dating

hi guys i have tried all the suggestions u all have given me but men she hardly bealives that i am the same guy [emmanuel]who loves her from the age of15 now i am 19. now i go to her house regularly,offer her chocolates and teddy bears and do a whole lot of gossips but men her attitude towards me has changed a lot.she thinks i am lossing interest in her but hanging out with her just to make her feel good but there is nothing like that.ilove her from the core of my heart. peoples say their girlfriend are one in a million but i say my one is single piece in the whole universe. but i cant understand how to bring back the lost vigour and charm in our relationship.plz help buddies.........

2007-06-06 23:49:37 · 7 answers · asked by emmanuel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 23:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by hitz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 23:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by julie m 1 in Family

I have a some what problem I think see I fell in love with my bestfriends ex old man and every since I have not been the same person I make myself look bad when I say my bestfriends old man hu but its true I LOVE him so much. Well they broke up and I have liked him for a long time we even messed around before they got together, She has made life hell see he has 2 boys with her. She keeps telling him she dont want me around her kids and man I'm tellling you what she is something else. But the problem is not her really it is he dont open up to me and tell me how he feels. When he does open up he wont come around for a few days and that I dont understand neither, He has done a lot wrong in the 2 years we have been seeing each other but I cant turn away from him I feel like he is my world I love him so much could you give me some advice on how I could maybe tell him how much he means to me or even any advice on how to get him to open up some...

2007-06-06 23:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by zackahron 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been a good son, I think , over the years. I have always supported and helped my mo even though I have two sisters and one brother (all older than me) who have fallen out with her over the years. Maybe my mom was a at fault too sometimes.

Anyway I got married a few years ago. They never accepted my wife into the family, and I got more distant from them, including my mom until basically we ending up getting racially attacked (my wife was my sister's target) - we went to the police to protect ourselves because they threatened us....we then ended up in court taken there by my sisters.

A long story...anyway, with the court case behind us we thought that would be the end of it. But my mom who lives alone
has continued to put pressure on me and my wife, and not giving me much time and peace for myself. I have worried about her alot but tried to give her help where I could.

Anyway, my sisters, after years of blanking my mom out of their life, are back on the scene, and they now have a common intereste - their hatrred of my and my wife. My mom has said she does'nt wanna fall out with me, but her actions say different.She called them - my sisters for help. And to be fair - they have given hher some help. But I have given her help over all my life, they turn up and now the smallest thing they do seems great. I feel unappreciated. And now, the money I banked from my mom, fo r my mom's bills was designed to make it easy for her to not worry about her bills. I would bank the money, then pay them on line when they would come in. My mom has gotten increasingly agoraphobic so it seemsed the best way to help her. I would not do her or anyone out of a penny. So when my sister called me I was shiocked - they have a lot of balls to call me after what they put us through, and now they pretend to show care for my mom.

I told my mom this morning that I dfid'nt want my sisters back in my life, and now she was the cause of it. I also told her I would send her every penny back this week. But this has really hurt, I feel she has sided with the devil, because my sisters have no good qualities.

Have any of you ever been threatened / challenged by your sisters or family member, what did you do, and what would you advise me to do? I just want a quiet life, but my sisters threatned to make life hell for me and they are delivering on that promise.

I told my my mom to contact me when my sisters let her down - because they will - but otherwise I wanna be left alone. I also told her that there were laws in this country and if my sisters or brother try harrassing me or my wife, then I will take it further. If you think I am too harsh, tell me so, but I just want to protect me and my wife, because the whole family seems dead against us.

Thank you

2007-06-06 23:40:53 · 11 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-06 23:40:01 · 10 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok..my mom's been using my curling tongs for about 2 weeks now because her old fashioned arent working properly. The 1st time she used them, she came into my room, saw them, and asked if she could use them. I said yeah just as long as she cleans them after (our hair oil etc comes off on them). So I jz thort tht was a kinda one off u know what I mean..I assumed she was plannin on gettin sum new ones. But since then, shes gradually been using them more and more regularly, like nearly evryday and the thing is, she dnt always clean em and she forgets they heat up instantly so she sometimes leaves em on for ages till they shut down. I havent said anything to her since this morning when I asked her when she's gona get sum ones of her own and shes like, well I dont need to Ive got these. Im like mom..theyre mine? And shes like did u pay for them? No, I said, I got them for christmas as a gift. And she's like well then I paid for them. And a row ensued. Am I in the wrong here?

2007-06-06 23:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by victim_of_mind 2 in Family

how'd you know if if what u r feeling for someone is lust or love?? please help.. any answer would do...=)

2007-06-06 23:37:08 · 5 answers · asked by platoniclove28 2 in Singles & Dating

See both the pics and tell me what you think about this girl.

Thank you!

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t227/...

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t227/...

2007-06-06 23:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boy friend is 5 years older than me and whenever i bring up sex he completley changes the subject and tells me to wait until i'm 18, he has my best intrest at heart and i can tell he loves me but i was wondering is dating an older guy when i'm not 18 yet wrong?

2007-06-06 23:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well me and my friend started this nickname thing like i call her sugarplum and she calls me babycakes and our friend edward is eddybear but i want a good one for my b.f and i cant think of one, does anyone know any good ones even if there original ones you've made up

2007-06-06 23:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i rub my remote control up and down my vagina quite hard while watching porn GIRLIES... try it trust me it is better than a penis....any girls try it let me know how it felt i love it!! im gonna try it now...

2007-06-06 23:28:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im having a few problems and i need somebody to answer this question in the quickest time possible

2007-06-06 23:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by tamzin b useful today 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy I don't really have a crush on but I want to have a friendship with like I asked but he's so quiet or kinda ignorant and he doesn't even greet me when he or I passes the other by
It's like I'm the one that do the talking.Well help me out.

2007-06-06 23:24:59 · 5 answers · asked by Straight Up! 1 in Friends

Iam married for 3 yrs .After one year of my marriage I started going for a job.My husband was not having any savings infact not even a bank A/c.Before marriage when I asked him he told that he is having some savings. But after marriage only I came to know the above fact. Then I adjusted I started going for a job and I started doing a little of savings. Ofcourse he has got bit of property . He was getting less salary then. He withdrew money from my a/c using my ATM card once without my knowledge . I shouted at him for doing it without my knowledge after that again he did the same thing he withdrew nearly Rs.10,000/- from my A/c. In the year 2005 he lost his job and he pledged my jewels and his jewels without my knowledge and at last I cam to know and I made an issue and atlast I only repaid the debt of Rs.30,000/- some how. After that I got him a job and he started going after that again he withdrew money from my A/c and cooly told that he has not done it .

2007-06-06 23:23:24 · 18 answers · asked by janu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in love with this guy for seven years but lost contact with him 3 years ago and haven't heard frm him since. i recently found his phone number but dont know whether i should call or text and what to say or write. he could have a girlfriend! I dont know if he feels the same way or not! i just want to play this safe. we did go out on a date a long time ago but we just didn't follow it up. I'm just afraid of getting hurt, of telling him how i feel and then him saying he never felt the same way! what should I do?

2007-06-06 23:21:27 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah Obie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've bought a leaving gift for my friend who is leaving our workplace this friday. I told my friend's girlfriend the gift i had bought from us all and she went a told him. When I found out a told my colleague next to me how out of order it is that she told him and that she is really spiteful for doing so. Anyway, she just came through to our office and signed his leaving card and my colleague said "isnt this the girl you were running down and saying was spiteful coz she ruined that surprise?" And I went really red. And now they're saying i'm 2 faced because I said one thing but they all do it all the time! What should i do?

2007-06-06 23:20:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is just too cute. i cannot. i just go flat when i see her and i cannot even stand properly. i go weak.... she is JUST TOO HOT!!
i go "1" i am just a teen how to control?
i am afraid that one day i might just touch her and hug her tightly and kiss her!!!.she is just fcute "1"

2007-06-06 23:17:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...And then when you did you felt terrible about it? :o(
*puts head down* I did... and I made her cry and I felt horrible. It broke my heart and I apologized, but I always felt bad about what I said that can never undue.

2007-06-06 23:14:54 · 12 answers · asked by Answer-Me-This 5 in Friends

Well there this guy i like and he likes me but recently i had an arguement with him and then we made up but now he told me that he dont want 2 get involved with a girl this summer because he wants to chill with his boys and he goes to me that he don't mind chilling and meeting up but thats it and he wants to think about us 2 before getting into things so i really dont know what to do. I have liked him for a year we done nearly everything together apart from sex but I really like him and its really hurting inside that he doesn't want to be my boyfriend yet. Please help.

2007-06-06 23:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyriend dumped me cus i shouted at him on a plane ( there was a good reason to) anyway now he wants to keep in touch with me when i said ok i shall move on now you have dumped me, what are his reasons for this and why would he want to??? he is 45 and i am 28

2007-06-06 23:05:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im worried about exams and just need some hugs :):)

2007-06-06 23:02:00 · 19 answers · asked by ♣Kermit the Frog♣ 4 in Singles & Dating