Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

2007-06-06 12:50:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is like the number 1 cardinal sin but it has happened to me, and I totally need advice. We work together and from day one I knew she was attracted to me but I never acted on it because I was new at the job. Now that I have been working @ the job for over a yr, she started leaving little notes on my desk saying hello and sending me emails to try to spark a conversation, well we hit it off like crazy its been 6 months that we have been talking and the whole time she has been tellin me she is in the process of getting a divorce and the whole nine yards when actually she hasnt done nothing. Now that the husband has caught on to her she doesnt know what to do because she fell in love with me and i feel so bad because she lied but i love her and im willing to forgive her, she claims she lied because she knew i wouldnt want to talk to her and shes married, well of course but now i dont want to stop with what we have. Shes been with her husband for 15 yrs and she has 2 kids.

2007-06-06 12:46:42 · 17 answers · asked by lancer_254 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 9 months ago, my fiance and I had a group of friends over for a bbq and drinks.Ususally I let my sister walk all over me, but that day I called her on something she did and she got pissed and stormed out of my house, dragging her poor husband with her. I normally am the one to apologise to her for ANY fight we get into, but this time I was sick of it, and "got a backbone" and decided she was the one at fault, so she can apololgize.Well it's 9 mo. later.I'm getting married in 5 months, and so i wrote her a nice letter basically saying the reasons i didn't back down this time but that wasn't it time to put this behind us? She got the letter last week according to her husband, but hadn't gotten around to opening it yet. So today i get this tattered envelope in the mail with my name scribbled on it from her. All it was was some old mail that was sent to her house addressed to me. Nothing actually from her. And believe me, the condition it was in was trying to say something to me...

2007-06-06 12:44:38 · 4 answers · asked by who? 1 in Family

2007-06-06 12:41:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 12:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there is this love interest of mine. While she is in a committed relationship we have spent an increasingly amount of time together after I confessed my feelings of love for her.
And now the part that confuses me is that whenever her boyfriend is in trouble or whenever she is in trouble, she comes to me...
Why would she come to me when she has someone else??? I'm not saying the I don't enjoy being asked to help her in anyway shape or form but, why does she come to me when she is with her boyfriend?

I respect him and I know that he can get himself out of any situation that he gets himself into. What gives?

2007-06-06 12:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by Lou 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I decided to attend a community college because going to a university was too expensive for me and my family. I decided not to attend a university after being admitted and now am at a community college because my teachers said it was their advice.

Ok, my dream is to go to a Medical school, I know I can do it, but I was offended by what a social worker told my mother. Since its just me and my mother, no father, and two brothers, the social worker said that I needed to stop pursuing this dream of mine and get a full time job to help my family because she wont receive food stamps anymore, that I need to work to help them, but the thing is, Im taking 16 units, and a full time job is impossible! Besides that, Im also doing community service!

If you were in my situation, would you listen to that woman and stop, or go on?

2007-06-06 12:35:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she loves to make out and i am a bad kisser what do i do

2007-06-06 12:33:21 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is allergic to latex, is it true that non-latex brand condoms dont last as long and break real easily. If so what do we do?

2007-06-06 12:28:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When they are living with or married to them and see them getting more and more obese ? What on earth size beds do these couple need to buy or have built even ? But...how do the men sweet talk their partners into feeling alright all the time when they are getting rapidly and horribly worse? Just keep telling them that they are "cuddly " or some odd crap like that ?

2007-06-06 12:26:26 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy i was seeing for a while he never told me that he had kids and one day i saw his sisters page on myspace and there was a picture of two kids they look just like him and he still won't admit it.....when we first met he tried to tell me but my reaction messed it up for him to be open with me ....i realized that my reaction made him uncomfortable but it's fine i was'nt going to leave him alone because he has kids...for some reason now he won't tell me..the other day we were talking and he said he was mad at his sister for saying something about him on myspace and when he was talking about her page i just came out and said "that's nice how she has a picture of your kids on her page".....he got quiet and i was trying to pronounce the youngest one's name and i asked him how do i pronounce the baby's name and he was being sarcastic saying ...."whatever u want to name her"........why is he acting like this? i have

2007-06-06 12:24:48 · 14 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so heres the deal i met this guy and like we became friends, a couple weeks later my best friend starts talking to him and then they start going out. and like now i have feelings for him..he tells me everythin and i tell him everythin and we just close. but theres another prob. everytime he is with my friend he like pushes me away and what he doesnt understand is that my friend doesnt really wanna b alone with him and like he takes her side but she doesnt take his. and she always thinks about breaking up with him and as i c it its an chance 4 me to get with him

2007-06-06 12:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by kavera90 1 in Friends

2007-06-06 12:21:52 · 17 answers · asked by loveitdet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every time i look up things about seperation anxiety in children,emotional problems with children,etc...it always comes up with pages and pages of stories and web help for single mothers. well what about the single dads? everyone is always clowning on deadbeat dads and how broken homes are always the mans fault.thats not true though.if a pole were to be conducted over the last couple of years i would bet that women are more apt to be the cause of broken homes more often today then in the past. so all that just to ask where are all the pages about deadbeat moms and all the pages to help fathers like myself deal with the plethera of emotional problems the child has dealing with it all?

2007-06-06 12:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by singledad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this boy that asked me out, and I said yes but never talked to me. I was waiting for him to come up and start a nice conversation. Then, he was being really mean to my friends so I was going to do something only kind of mean to him at the dance he asked me to. It wasn't horrible but some overheard and told him and then he called me an fu**** ***** and a jerk. So I want to like put laxitives in a drink and give it to him but my mom said I couldn't. You know, to make him have diaherrea. What else can I do?

2007-06-06 12:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for a few years now (living together), and I sometimes wonder if he's in another world. For example, When I want to do something, he doesn't feel like it...but if his friends call, he suddenly has energy to do things. So then I say to him, "Hey, we should really do more together", he's all like, but we do a lot together (we really don't...an occasional dinner/movie). So, I'm not really sure what that's all about. Also, his eating habits really bother me. He just got results back from a physical, and he has really high colesterol...but he still eats lots of pizza and fast food (and he's gaining weight). I try to work out together, but he never feels like it and wants to play video games instead (I love video games myself, but he likes games that we can't really play together).
It seems like maybe he's getting bored. Anyone else been through this?

2007-06-06 12:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by vanessabfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

through out my marriage there has been alot of physical and verbal abuse,alcohol,and infiedilty from him! And now he has change completly but the love is not there.

2007-06-06 12:03:35 · 17 answers · asked by bunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 6 years lost his boxer 3 years ago. The dog had cause lots of problems in our relationship. I do not like animals in the home, and the fact that he could never leave the dog alone for more then 12 hours made it hard to be together. Now a co worker ask him to take another boxer in his home, we talked about it, all the pro and con and we decided not to get the dog. Well he went behind my back and took the dog, and this sunday he made a promise to me, one he broke because of the dog. Is this a slap in my face, and what should I do. I spent a load of money and time to get the smell out of the home before, and now it means nothing to him.

2007-06-06 12:02:58 · 12 answers · asked by Annie 4 in Singles & Dating

my parents dont like this friend an say that i cant hasng wit her an she is like u try to be such close friends with me but then u go an do this

2007-06-06 12:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 11:59:38 · 19 answers · asked by ronnies_grl24 1 in Family

She's never totally shaved before and it's been a fantacy to make love to her without the hair. Wouldn't she be more sensitive too?

2007-06-06 11:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by Julius4U 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you guys tend to stay away from shy girls? are you not interested in them at all or do you think that the mystery behind them is intriguing yet you won't talk to a shy girl because she doesn't talk that much? I'm just wondering that's all. Please let me know what you think. Thanks.

2007-06-06 11:58:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can someone explain to me the purpose in killing her???

it just dosent make sence AT ALL becuase i would understand if they killed her for her money or robbed her car but why would they just randomly pick a girl to kill? wtf it dosent make sence. and how did the person know she was going to be in target? the plan had to take a long time to plan.. can someone give me some insight on this..opinions ect?

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2007-06-06 11:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-06 11:56:07 · 32 answers · asked by arturwysoczanski 2 in Singles & Dating

I came back from looking at a new apartment for my husband and I (he could not make it), as I was telling him about the place I asked him a question, he refused to answer me, but then asked me a question and demanded that i answer him. Then he stood up and slammed his fist down on the table right infront of my face. As he walked away i told him he is mean. He screamed at me from across the house and said "F*** You!" I said I cannot be with someone that's going to treat me this way (he has acted out like this in the past), and he said "Their is the F******* door then, you can just leave. I said you don't care? And he said "There is the door." My husband is in the Marine Corp, he tells me he loves me but i don't think he does.....can someone please give me some adivse about this situation? thank you so much....

2007-06-06 11:55:31 · 26 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my wedding is suppose to be in the winter of feburary or january, i have his two sisters as well as my 4 sisters in my wedding 2 of them is also my bridemaids as well as two other cousins,, and the other two sisters is the flower girl and junior bride,,, also my maid of honor is my cousin and,, is it wrong for my fiance to not want my 15 and 10 year old brother too not have them as one of his groomsmen,,, my 10 yr old brother is going to be the ring barreier,, since my fiance dont really have as much family as me,, nor a younger ring person,, so my brother was going to be the ring barreir, how can i convince to let them in the wedding ,, and is he supposed to have atleast themn as family too,, as his groomsmen

2007-06-06 11:51:26 · 19 answers · asked by caramel 2 in Weddings

i met him in his cousin's wedding, we shared some good moments with others friends, he was this caring,handsome,funny,everything..... and so finally he went back to his country...promissing friendship, he calls me at least once a week, he just talks like anyother friend does, but there's always this"i terreble miss u dear"
when i call him , he just talks like normal,when i tell him, i miss him , he says thanks, and when i just shout up, he says what's wrong dear?dont you miss me?
my love for him is seriously growing, i feel like he's the man of my life....i'm afraid of telling him that i love him, i dont want to loose even the small feeling he had for me....i dont want to loose his smile, his friendship,his words,.....everything
and every young girl that he talks to, she love him, but he once told me,when he was around, i had to look for a boy friend,and he was going to look for a gal too and last month he asked me if i got one, i said nothing, when i asked him , he said no...

2007-06-06 11:51:24 · 6 answers · asked by hotty 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this woman who is alot older then me and I want to know is it is ok to just to be friends.
She is over 25 years older then me.

2007-06-06 11:48:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, i am hot, tall, and blond but no guys have asked me out !!!!!! if feel really really really ulgy but my friends say that i am the hotest girl in the class!! what is wrong with me!!!!

2007-06-06 11:46:47 · 19 answers · asked by maddie 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy is really bothering me and threatening me a lot and i would like to know is there a way that i can get a restraining order on him without letting anyone in my family know? also, is it free? because i really want to get rid of the guy but for some reason, i can't find a way how with all the threats he has been claiming.

2007-06-06 11:40:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating