She's never totally shaved before and it's been a fantacy to make love to her without the hair. Wouldn't she be more sensitive too?
2007-06-06 11:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by Julius4U 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I get it done, it is not too bad. The first time hurt the worst, but if she takes some tylenol or Motrin 30 minutes before it does take some of the pain away. But if she isnt comfortable maybe get her to shave it, then maybe after a while she will try to get one. It may also be an embarrasing thing for her if she is not comfortable showing herself to whomever is doing the waxing. Good Luck
2007-06-06 12:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Purple_passion2805 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't get bikini waxes, ask her to try that first. Keep in mind that it's her "area" and I can only imagine that it would hurt like a *****. Can you imagine having wax ripped off your nuts?
I would share your fantasy with her, but let her know that if she's not up for it; that you are ok with that and love her just as much. There are other fantasies out there and I'm sure you guys can find a few others that you have in common to play out.
2007-06-06 19:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. Just be careful how you ask her. Make sure you let her know that it's always been your fantasy to have her after she's had one.
Also, even if she decides to do it, don't expect it all the time. Having a wax isn't as simple as it sounds. You try waxing your most sensitive parts, even once, and see if you'll want to do it again. LOL.
Good luck.
2007-06-06 19:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong, but be realistic about it. First, realize that waxing hurts like hell. You are essentially asking her to go through pain for you. Therefore, this isn't something to demand, is something to ask for. Second, realize that this is a guy's fantasy but may not be a woman's fantasy. For a lot of women being shaved down there sort of hints a pedophilia, even though a guy may not be going that direction at all.
The best thing to do is to talk about it.
2007-06-06 19:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you go get a wax job on your's and then see if you feel the same way. Women have the same fantasy of not eating hair.
2007-06-06 19:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Luv2RIDE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife said no..then yep its wrong. Have you ever had a brazilian wax? Don't ask anyone to do something your not willing to.
2007-06-06 19:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You first, big boy!!! I would NOT do that for anyone. Ain't no one, NO HOW putting wax anywhere near my privates.
I've gone bare before by shaving. I didn't like it.
2007-06-06 19:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so normal , every man likes to have a soft woman next to him. and every woman wants her man to feel her softness. i think not wantign to feel smooth is whats wrong . like they say ist not imprtant what ur sayin its how u say it. so if u told her ur skin feels like my beard then u deserve all the stinging . but if u told her that u think shes being ur beautiful hard workin wife that deserves a lil spoling na tahst why u booked her a day in the spa and u bought her waxing and massage may be a manucure then ur a smooth man and deserve a smooth skin woman ;)
good lukc
2007-06-06 19:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by shereen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Waxing hurts!! Just aske her to shave and see how she feels about it.
2007-06-06 19:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to shave, less pain. Promise you will eat her cherry pie for a half hour, that should get her buy in
2007-06-06 20:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋