So there is this love interest of mine. While she is in a committed relationship we have spent an increasingly amount of time together after I confessed my feelings of love for her.
And now the part that confuses me is that whenever her boyfriend is in trouble or whenever she is in trouble, she comes to me...
Why would she come to me when she has someone else??? I'm not saying the I don't enjoy being asked to help her in anyway shape or form but, why does she come to me when she is with her boyfriend?
I respect him and I know that he can get himself out of any situation that he gets himself into. What gives?
2007-06-06 12:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by Lou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So she is dating him? and has a thingy with you? And you and he know about each other....And you've told her that you love her....... Well, then, she is getting a whole lot of attention from you both. She revels in attention? She may be keeping you on the back burner as a possible "back-up, b/c she doesn't know just what to do with you, for the moment.
2007-06-06 13:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest. You're creepy. She has a boyfriend and you don't respect him, if you did you'd back off of her.
You two deserve each other though. She shouldn't be coming to you if she knows you like her and has a boyfriend.
Just two creepies.
2007-06-06 12:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by megan f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels like you will always be there for her and I think that you should be honored because it seems like she trusts you more than she trusts her boyfriend. Maybe it's her way of saying, "Te quiero en mi cama papi". lol.
2007-06-06 12:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she sees you as someone she can talk to, and that will help her. You know, like a good friend.
2007-06-06 12:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just like the movie "Just Friends" you my friend are in the friend zone.
2007-06-06 13:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Nelson C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it and find out whats goin on if she likes him more than you or you more than him
2007-06-06 12:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes you and is torn between you are her boyfriend
2007-06-06 12:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU ARE HER BACK UP PLAN, HER PLAN B IN CASE IT DOESN'T WORK OUT W/ THE BF
2007-06-06 12:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
excuse me i am a lady
2007-06-06 12:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by (cici) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she's using you. move on.
2007-06-06 12:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by miyshoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋